Alright, need some girl help

[onearmedbastard 10+ year member]

OK lets get on our softer side for a moment and help a brother out. Im in a knot here.

So I have a girlfriend, and she is great. We have been goin out for roughly almost 2 months now and I guess we are 'in love.' Well things are going great and all but then this other girl comes along. Now we have been on and off for a while but we have been talking lately. I guess we are falling for eachother - hard this time. I hate to say it but she makes me happier when I talk to her than my girlfriend does. I guess she has more of a "personality" and other stuff. My girlfriend gets an attitude sometimes and always takes things too seriously. We get in fights alot cuz she takes things the wrong way.

Anyways I just don't know what to do. Yes I still love my girlfriend but the other person just fills the qualities that my girl is missing. If I could break up with her I would, but its not easy. She always tells me how we are gonna be together forever and etc and etc. And I know she will go ballistic.

My question: Should I break up with her for the other girl, or wait to see what happens, or what. Its a hard decision because I know my girl will do anything for me, but the other girl I can just tell I might be a little happier with.

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[yne721 10+ year member]

i'll be the first to say it, beacuse i know someone else will...

keep dating your girlfriend and screw the other girl on the side. if you get caught screwing the other girl, i'm sure you're girlfriend will dump you, then you can date the other girl.

p.s i myself would not cheat on any significant other, and i shall not be held accountable for any reputation you may recieve

 

[infernobackman 10+ year member]

hahaha dude....... that is awesome //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

 

[SeaKid 10+ year member]

Dude...

IF you know she will go ballistic, then why do you want to go out with a crazy wentch anyways.... Its cool to have them attatched I guess, but sometimes, eh....

Go with the other chick, also how old are you?

 

[SeaKid 10+ year member]

i'll be the first to say it, beacuse i know someone else will...
keep dating your girlfriend and screw the other girl on the side. if you get caught screwing the other girl, i'm sure you're girlfriend will dump you, then you can date the other girl.

This is another plausible scenario....

Just watchout for the GF after you get caught.. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/blackeye.gif.66a1670f5aaf7f406e783a63e3387dc5.gif

 

[Imtjnotu 5,000+ posts]

who is down to smash?

 

[Famous_78]

Ive had my fare share of crazy girls man, go with what makes you happy if your girlfriend is as bad as you say she is then go with the other one.

 

[onearmedbastard 10+ year member]

i'll be the first to say it, beacuse i know someone else will...
keep dating your girlfriend and screw the other girl on the side. if you get caught screwing the other girl, i'm sure you're girlfriend will dump you, then you can date the other girl.

p.s i myself would not cheat on any significant other, and i shall not be held accountable for any reputation you may recieve

nahh i never was like that never will be

 

[bubbagumper6 5,000+ posts]

well the grass is always greener on the other side...if you have been on and off with that other girl what makes you think this time would be any different? And if your girl takes shit too seriously some times...talk to her about it and change that. I know what you mean cuz my girl used to get mad at some stuff when i was kidding but we talked about it and now she understands my sense of humor and we dont fight anymore //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

 

[onearmedbastard 10+ year member]

Dude...
IF you know she will go ballistic, then why do you want to go out with a crazy wentch anyways.... Its cool to have them attatched I guess, but sometimes, eh....

Go with the other chick, also how old are you?

17

 

[onearmedbastard 10+ year member]

well the grass is always greener on the other side...if you have been on and off with that other girl what makes you think this time would be any different? And if your girl takes shit too seriously some times...talk to her about it and change that. I know what you mean cuz my girl used to get mad at some stuff when i was kidding but we talked about it and now she understands my sense of humor and we dont fight anymore //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

the thing is we never actually went out. we never had the chance to. i guess weve always liked eachother but this time we are falling for eachother hard and will have a chance going out for a few reasons

 

[Imtjnotu 5,000+ posts]

dude get ur bars up seriously...oh girl on the side aint nothing but *** and the one infront of u is prolly gonna cheat on u anyways..

 

[Fast1one 10+ year member]

Im was in the same boat, how funny, except my relationship has been for a year and a half //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif

 

[SeaKid 10+ year member]

I am 17 too, and any chick that says 'oh we are going to be together for ever babe' after 2 months is off in my book.

Like bubba said, how do you know it will work.

You also have to look at it in this way, who is more willing to **** ur cack.

 

[yne721 10+ year member]

nahh i never was like that never will be

ok, here's my honest answer.

if you even have to question whether or not this girl is worth staying with, she's not. there shouldn't be a doubt in your mind that she's worth it. if you wonder, then she's not worth it. so i'd break up with her and date the other girl.

or here's another solution.

every couple has their good days and bad days. everytime my girlfriend and I play putt-putt we have an awesome time. so here's my suggestion. plan an amazing day with your current girlfriend. go do some stuff she wants, and do some stuff you want. don't get in any fights with her.

now do the same thing with this second girl. a couple days later.

take an honest look at which day was more satisfying, and make your choice based on that.