Adopted gf parents cutting her off completly what to do?

[bizflawless 5,000+ posts]

 

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

bump

 

[rtillaree 10+ year member]

(12:24:03 am): her parents are dropping even if she like leaves u

trunks9us (12:25:16 am): well wat they want her to do is move back in home and go to school there and study study study and i got her mom down to where if i get her to stay there can i see her and she said on saturdays but not every saturday

(12:25:32 am): lol

(12:25:34 am): they hate u

trunks9us (12:25:43 am): i know she doesnt want me there she also said that she said that i brought her down b/c i treated her out to some romance she said i bought her daughter out

man, maybe im still sleepy, but i cant understand half of this...

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

I tried to read the whole thread but was unable, I just couldn't understand. I felt like I was reading a text message or something.

I have 1 questions, why would you choose a girl who was not already self-sufficient? I have learned from my previous relationship that if a girl puts her "everything" in to you, she expects you do to the same.

She will expect you to put her in front of your friends, hobbies, and interests. She will ask you to skip school to just spend time with her. Seriously, the want to be loved in equal proportion as they love you.

I learned that I won't date a girl who

a) doesn't have a job

b) doesn't have a strong friendship with other girls/family. If they don't have "girl night" or whatever, I get mad. I don't want to be your life.

c) doesn't have any goals. They don't have to have a written list, but something. Interest in achieving something besides consuming my life.

Just my opinion, but it is something to think about.

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

man, maybe im still sleepy, but i cant understand half of this...

Exactly what I was getting at with my foreign student question. I thought maybe he was ESL.

I tried to read the whole thread but was unable, I just couldn't understand. I felt like I was reading a text message or something.

I have 1 questions, why would you choose a girl who was not already self-sufficient? I have learned from my previous relationship that if a girl puts her "everything" in to you, she expects you do to the same.

She will expect you to put her in front of your friends, hobbies, and interests. She will ask you to skip school to just spend time with her. Seriously, the want to be loved in equal proportion as they love you.

I learned that I won't date a girl who

a) doesn't have a job

b) doesn't have a strong friendship with other girls/family. If they don't have "girl night" or whatever, I get mad. I don't want to be your life.

c) doesn't have any goals. They don't have to have a written list, but something. Interest in achieving something besides consuming my life.

Just my opinion, but it is something to think about.

I couldnt either. I was laughing the whole time trying to figure out what he was trying to say. Maybe he really was drinking like mp3 pimp said.

Also you think like me and some other people I know. However, we are not racist, because we are black, but you are racist, so maybe we dont think alike. You do have some good points on choosing a mate though.

 

[BiaBia 10+ year member]

I'll side with most of the other posters. You should go back to school yourself, learn the english language and then start from step one. You think you'll help her with school? Shit, you guys aren't ready for anything.

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

1 step at a time Dev, 1 step at a time.

 

[dan7532 10+ year member]

I tried to read the whole thread but was unable, I just couldn't understand. I felt like I was reading a text message or something.

I have 1 questions, why would you choose a girl who was not already self-sufficient? I have learned from my previous relationship that if a girl puts her "everything" in to you, she expects you do to the same.

She will expect you to put her in front of your friends, hobbies, and interests. She will ask you to skip school to just spend time with her. Seriously, the want to be loved in equal proportion as they love you.

I learned that I won't date a girl who

a) doesn't have a job

b) doesn't have a strong friendship with other girls/family. If they don't have "girl night" or whatever, I get mad. I don't want to be your life.

c) doesn't have any goals. They don't have to have a written list, but something. Interest in achieving something besides consuming my life.

Just my opinion, but it is something to think about.

Ditto.

 

[dan7532 10+ year member]

Exactly what I was getting at with my foreign student question. I thought maybe he was ESL.
I couldnt either. I was laughing the whole time trying to figure out what he was trying to say. Maybe he really was drinking like mp3 pimp said.

Also you think like me and some other people I know. However, we are not racist, because we are black, but you are racist, so maybe we dont think alike. You do have some good points on choosing a mate though.

Maybe I missed something, but what does race and racism have to do with anything?

 

[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

21 and 19 but age should not matter i would not thinkand i do love her

didn't read the whole thing but boo hoo cry me a river, grow some balls, get a job. and support yourselves. your fukin adults not children its time you act like it.

 

[iLL-Faded 10+ year member]

girls aren't everything there is to life you know.

 

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

w/e your all lame

 

[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

you are the adult afraid to be a man

fyi its you're

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

Maybe I missed something, but what does race and racism have to do with anything?

Inside joke. Nothing to do with this thread.

girls aren't everything there is to life you know.

Word, money is!!!!

w/e your all lame

hahahahaha

you are the adult afraid to be a man
fyi its you're

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[Pistonsfan70 10+ year member]

its hard to sav e up money for a car and pay rent and go to college u know.

I do it....ALOT of people do it