A few Opinions before the G/F moves in..

Live by yourself...
Keep the woman down the street so you can see her when you want but you can always escape to your own personal sanctuary...
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Law the law down, 50/50...
Only other option I've seen work is...

Man = RENT/Mortgage

Woman = All utilities/Groceries

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x2. works great. as long as she can afford it. sometimes i still have to write her a check for $100 or something, and buy the groceries some weeks //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/furious.gif.fc81ca146dbff91fede3ed290dbc4f4c.gif . We both make about the same, im like wtf! and she doesnt even have a some what expensive hobby lol

maybe figure up your total bills and make her pay you a flat rate of ~30-40% of what that is on a typical month //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

 
Law the law down, 50/50...
Only other option I've seen work is...

Man = RENT/Mortgage

Woman = All utilities/Groceries

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That is how we do it.

LOL at all the fegs charging their womens the rent.
Failures.
Really I would rather pay the rent........which as of right now I am, but for the past 3 years she has been.

Guess what, all of the utility/ Groceries exceed our monthly rent. So yeah, I would gladly switch! As of right now, I have been doing eveything till our problems are over.

 
I wonder about that shit like in FL though, once you are together 4 or 5 years you are 'legally' married in FL or some shit like that I wonder how it would go down if they were to break up could she claim for half the crib.
WRONG.

Common law doesn't exist in FL. If there was no legal marriage documented then she wouldn't get half the crib if her name isn't on it.

Common law marriage is recognized only in the following states:

Alabama

Colorado

District of Columbia

Georgia (if created before 1/1/97)

Idaho (if created before 1/1/96)

Iowa

Kansas

Montana

New Hampshire (for inheritance purposes only)

Ohio (if created before 10/10/91)

Oklahoma

Pennsylvania (if created before 1/1/05)

Rhode Island

South Carolina

Texas

Utah

In addition to this even though these states "recognize" it, it has to be proven in fron of a Judge. This can be done easily if you both co-mingle funds and ownerships. If you don't co-mingle then it is easy for you to say you never recognized your co-habitation as a marriage.

Common Requirements:

Common-law marriages are not licensed by government authorities, although they may be recorded in the public records of some governmental entities.

Common-law marriages are not solemnized.

Cohabitation alone does not create a common-law marriage; the couple must hold themselves out to the world as husband and wife(must use same last name); and

There must be mutual consent of the parties to the relationship constituting a marriage

Both parties must be of legal age to enter into a marriage or have parental consent to marry

In some jurisdictions, a couple must have cohabited and held themselves out to the world as husband and wife for a minimum length of time for the marriage to be recognised as valid

 
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