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[jmanpc 5,000+ posts]

 

[jmanpc 5,000+ posts]

photobucket fail

 

[Ignatowski 5,000+ posts]

nope

Getting dating advice from loosers who never get any Play will

not help your situation. I say why not,as long as she doesnt have ex bf baggage

that will get in the way - she looks cute IMO

 

[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

I'm not really digging the colored contacts. Tell the bish to rock her browns.But whatever floats your boat.

Just, a note...

A kid = A LOT less ***.

not in my experience. but if all you are looking for is ***, i'd stay away. since the kid doesnt need to have men in and out of his/her life.

 

[crunktimes.com 5,000+ posts]

I have dated chicks with kids however I would never get serious with a chick that had kids, thankfully I am married as that is harder to find the older you get.

Thankfully most of the chicks I dated with kids were really shitty moms so the kids never got in the way of us wanting to go out and do shit.

 

[quest51210 10+ year member]

i'm no brad pitt, but i aint no pit bull either

yeah shes got some baby weight, but her kid looks about 3 maybe 4 tops. dont bother me, im not exactly brad pitt myself lol

 

[sctattooer 10+ year member]

I would, and have, but remember this: A chick with kids has priorities, her kids. Being single sucks, but being single and having a kid sucks worse. You have to have enough money to make sure the kid is taken care of, plus, if you want to do anything fun, the kid is an anchor.

Once a chick has lived like this for awhile, they start looking for a guy not for a fun time, not just for ***, but for the extra income, security, and help a guy can give in the raising of the kid.

If you get into a relationship with her, there are things you'll have to understand. Money is important, and she'll need as much of yours as you can offer, and she'll need some time with the girls too, and you'll end up babysitting someone else's kid eventually.

The kid to her is number one, and always will be. Never think that you are as important as the kid. If you dont believe it, try disciplining a kid that isnt yours. She will let you know quick where you stand.

Best bet? Hit it and quit it

 

[brtnboarder3241 5,000+ posts]

please no

 

[regal8r 5,000+ posts]

I would, and have, but remember this: A chick with kids has priorities, her kids. Being single sucks, but being single and having a kid sucks worse. You have to have enough money to make sure the kid is taken care of, plus, if you want to do anything fun, the kid is an anchor.
Once a chick has lived like this for awhile, they start looking for a guy not for a fun time, not just for ***, but for the extra income, security, and help a guy can give in the raising of the kid.

If you get into a relationship with her, there are things you'll have to understand. Money is important, and she'll need as much of yours as you can offer, and she'll need some time with the girls too, and you'll end up babysitting someone else's kid eventually.

The kid to her is number one, and always will be. Never think that you are as important as the kid. If you dont believe it, try disciplining a kid that isnt yours. She will let you know quick where you stand.

Best bet? Hit it and quit it

i realize this and agree that kids always come first. thats how i was raised, and thats how id raise mine. the kid is 2 so shes been doing okay for a while with just 1 income and child support from the dad.

 

[hoss 5,000+ posts]

my current girl has two kids, id say go for it. if you have thought before that you wanted kids, actually having them in your life can change your mind...

i guess its harder when they arent yours, but they have their ups and downs //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif . and to those people saying having a kid means less ***... couldnt be much further from the troof...

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

Kids seem like a lot of trouble. I enjoy getting drunk and passing out in the living room with the TV on and waking up around noon. Then Xmas is coming around the corner and either you have to chip in or buy them a gift...especially if they are 2.

 

[hoss 5,000+ posts]

Kids seem like a lot of trouble. I enjoy getting drunk and passing out in the living room with the TV on and waking up around noon. Then Xmas is coming around the corner and either you have to chip in or buy them a gift...especially if they are 2.

i disagree to all of these arguments. i routinely get drunk around the kids, and i make them bring me more beer.

also, i dont really plan on getting them anything for xmas... they arent mine after all...

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

hmmm....interesting about the gifts. I'd expect to feel obligated to do so.

Indeed about the bringing me moar beer. I have bee trying to train the cat to no avail.

 

[hoss 5,000+ posts]

hmmm....interesting about the gifts. I'd expect to feel obligated to do so.Indeed about the bringing me moar beer. I have bee trying to train the cat to no avail.

you have a cat, you are already domesticated... for shame flip //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

How domesticated?