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[HeatSeeker 10+ year member]

Yes, but she was married and still with her man...so no baby daddy duty for me. Almost got busted quite a few times tho but made it out every time..

 

[ace_800 5,000+ posts]

dude WTF....thats my ex wife.

No bullshit, it is....

 

[HungNeckTight 10+ year member]

id say go for it if you like her. plus you wont have to deal with seeing her all the time because she has to take car of her kid. so you wont have to deal with hanging out with you friends and getting why dont you want to see me phone calls like my girl loves to do.

 

[jmanpc 5,000+ posts]

I wouldn't touch a girl with a kid with a 10 foot pole, no matter how cute she is.

Why? I don't want to get roped into a situation where I have to raise a kid she had with her ex fuckbuddy.

 

[HeatSeeker 10+ year member]

I wouldn't touch a girl with a kid with a 10 foot pole, no matter how cute she is.
Why? I don't want to get roped into a situation where I have to raise a kid she had with her ex fuckbuddy.

What if its a kid that might have been yours in the first place? And some other unlucky shit was the patsy for that.

 

[jmanpc 5,000+ posts]

If it was my kid I would man up and raise it. Men who walk out on their kids should be shot for being shitty people.

 

[bigbangtheory 5,000+ posts]

I would, and have, but remember this: A chick with kids has priorities, her kids. Being single sucks, but being single and having a kid sucks worse. You have to have enough money to make sure the kid is taken care of, plus, if you want to do anything fun, the kid is an anchor.
Once a chick has lived like this for awhile, they start looking for a guy not for a fun time, not just for ***, but for the extra income, security, and help a guy can give in the raising of the kid.

If you get into a relationship with her, there are things you'll have to understand. Money is important, and she'll need as much of yours as you can offer, and she'll need some time with the girls too, and you'll end up babysitting someone else's kid eventually.

The kid to her is number one, and always will be. Never think that you are as important as the kid. If you dont believe it, try disciplining a kid that isnt yours. She will let you know quick where you stand.

Best bet? Hit it and quit it

This must be in your expierence or something.

I agree about the mom and her kids being number 1, but she respects the fact I discipline her kids.....unless I get out of hand, which has happened from time to time, but for the most part she stands right behind me because she knows I am right and the kids are wrong. Well usually is just one kid because we butt heads.

Also my girl has never looked at me for extra income or a baby sitter. Hell we have her mom for the baby sitter and she makes plenty of money before I came into her life. Granted it is bad right now because of certain unfortuante events, but this is the first time in 4 years I have had to up my finances and take on more responibility.

Overall though me taking on 2 kids that are not mine has helped me grow a lot and help me with my own child. I feel they pathed the way for me in retrospect.

Now I ask any of you, try having 3 little girls, ranging from 17 months to 11 and 12. Shit can be hard, not gonna lie.

No wonder why I watch a shit ton of sports, lol!

Also maybe this is different because she is my wife and just not some chick I ment, lol!

 

[90accordman 5,000+ posts]

she seems out of your league compared to some of your previous findings

 

[hoss 5,000+ posts]

How domesticated?

pretty domesticated. if i were you i would take the cat for a long drive in the country, or just trade it in for a dog. dogs work wonders for picking up teh womens. cats just want to kill you.

 

[infamous_e46 5,000+ posts]

who is her kid that icarly girl

if so then goooo for it //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/greedy.gif.5a53e6246569d7ab79867170f3b06629.gif:greedy:

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[SethPhillips 5,000+ posts]

nope, unless she was a dime +

i still would just keep it on the hush and not make things exclusive..

girl's with kid's ****.. never dated one.. but my homeboy has and he said it aint nothing but trubble. plus the cost is crazy..

 

[farmerehsan 10+ year member]

i dated a girl who had a kid...love the kid to death, and liked her too. her baby was 5 months old...but her family kinda got to me...it didnt work for me