sorry, Ive been away from the internet..
everythin's good now, it only did it a couple of times, i drove it to town and back, no issues after that, dom said they will do that if the battery is low (I discharged it once, on accident durring install)
he said hes seen it before, and with the violtages I had, it wasnt an issue
the dummy light hasnt come back on since
thanks for all the help