What would you do? In a fight...

[etc. 10+ year member]

She put herself in the situation, not you. Obviously seeing that douche bag out weighs the fact she could have her kid taken away.

On top of that, she wants you to lie to the judicial system.

PIIHB and then kick her to the curb.

 

[tRidiot 10+ year member]

**** it, she lied when you were trying to protect her ***.

She needs to go. Tell the truth, her kid DOES need to be taken away, she willingly put him/her in danger. Bad mom, HORRIBLE roommate, generally a *****. She needs to learn to accept the consequences of her actions, and you need to get her the **** OUT.

If you perpetuate this situation anymore, then you're an idiot, too, and deserve what you get.

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

well considering the story, and how she already lied to the cops, why dont you just get her to say he showed up unexpectedly which in turns violates his pfa, and then shes not at risk of losing the baby, she cant stop him from showing up!! you know? hes in violation, tell her to stop tryin to protect her nut *** baby's dad, before you tell teh truth to it all!!

No, he should tell them she called him over. He is already going to get ****ed most ikely since he showed up, regardless if she called him or not. IMO she needs to pay for it too.

**** it, she lied when you were trying to protect her ***.
She needs to go. Tell the truth, her kid DOES need to be taken away, she willingly put him/her in danger. Bad mom, HORRIBLE roommate, generally a *****. She needs to learn to accept the consequences of her actions, and you need to get her the **** OUT.

If you perpetuate this situation anymore, then you're an idiot, too, and deserve what you get.

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[kombat96 10+ year member]

Speak the truth, she obviously wasnt thinking about her or the kid AND is still keeping the drama going. i say STOP the drama and send the momma up the river, if you dont this guy already has been there and will come back. this will become a HUGE long ordeal of BS with this person.

 

[tRidiot 10+ year member]

Speak the truth, she obviously wasnt thinking about her or the kid AND is still keeping the drama going. i say STOP the drama and send the momma up the river, if you dont this guy already has been there and will come back. this will become a HUGE long ordeal of BS with this person.

Absolutely... people who live this kind of drama bullshit NEVER stop it. She is dragging you down into it, you already nearly went to jail, and still could, if baby daddy decides to lie about things.

Keep in mind... she has a child with this man, she obviously is NOT ready to cut ties with him, AND she's willing to jeopardize your future and freedom to protect herself AND this man.

If you don't get out of this situation, you're ****ing retarded, man.

And you ain't even gettin' any trim outta this deal! DANG

 

[LiquidClen 10+ year member]

tag for later

 

[jr15 10+ year member]

No, he should tell them she called him over. He is already going to get ****ed most ikely since he showed up, regardless if she called him or not. IMO she needs to pay for it too.
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ok i understand that she may need to pay for it too, but we all know what kind of attachments come along w/ loving someone, regardless of the past u still have attachments, ESPECIALLY when a child is involved! his whole thing is lying about it happening to an innocent person, and first off its not like they are going to trial over this shit, and he wont be lying to anyone but his local police dept at most, and he already said he will be talking to child services...now unless she put the baby in direct danger or the baby was harmed in any way, than i dont think she should suffer getting her child taken away..she put her self in a situation where SHE could have been hurt, not anywhere have i read that the baby was mistreated, or harmed at all! how can you justify sitting on the internet, and saying she deserves to lose her child? you know nothing about her!! im sure she takes very good care of her child, she just has emotional attachment to her baby's dad which is expected when you have a child with someone!!! you guys are basing this off of a 1 paragraph statement!! you have no right wut so ever!!

 

[BobbyDD 10+ year member]

I wouldn't tell DCS anything. They'll turn everything around on you that they possible can.

 

[rugdnit 10+ year member]

chicks like this always have the same drama and never seem to learn... check that they know better, but this is how they inject drama into their crappy boring life. they have no consideration for anyone, but themselves. they do not care who they hurt... even their own child. how do you know that she has not been leading him on and playing the both of you? get some balls and dial.... 1-800-5800-TOM

 

[sue bee 10+ year member]

baby mama drama

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

ok i understand that she may need to pay for it too, but we all know what kind of attachments come along w/ loving someone, regardless of the past u still have attachments, ESPECIALLY when a child is involved! his whole thing is lying about it happening to an innocent person, and first off its not like they are going to trial over this shit, and he wont be lying to anyone but his local police dept at most, and he already said he will be talking to child services...now unless she put the baby in direct danger or the baby was harmed in any way, than i dont think she should suffer getting her child taken away..she put her self in a situation where SHE could have been hurt, not anywhere have i read that the baby was mistreated, or harmed at all! how can you justify sitting on the internet, and saying she deserves to lose her child? you know nothing about her!! im sure she takes very good care of her child, she just has emotional attachment to her baby's dad which is expected when you have a child with someone!!! you guys are basing this off of a 1 paragraph statement!! you have no right wut so ever!!

drama = gay and unecesary, him putting himself in the middle of this drama = unecessary

I do have the right, its called freedom of speech. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif My opinion is what he asked for, my opinion is what I posted.

 

[iamamp3pimp 5,000+ posts]

I'll warn you, this may get long..
but I am living with this girl and she has a kid. She broke up with the baby's father (almost a year ago) and he was arrested (for beating the hell out of her) and the kid was taken temporarily from her and put into foster care until she proved the father would not be around the kid and that she got a protection order to keep him away.

So, she did all that, got her kid back and the 3 of us live together (she is not my girlfriend and never was), she decided to call her baby's father to her house 2 weeks ago... He gets loud and violent towards her and I told him to leave. He punched me in the face and I then beat the crap out of him (his broken jaw connected with my broken hand lol). Anyways, while we were fighting, the girl decided to call the police, this guy gets up and runs as soon as that happens.

Police come and ask for a statement, I told them I wouldnt give one without my lawyer, and she gives a statement saying I beat up another guy (gave a name of one of her friends that I barely know)... This gets me a little mad and I didnt understand why, but she gave a different person's name, and she afterwards told me it was because she realized if she gave her baby's fathers name that he was there, then she would have her kid taken from her permanantly. I have now recieved a letter from children's services asking me to speak with them about the incident that night (because they are notified of any incidents involing police and people they are responsible to look over)

Do I tell the truth from the night (and this could result in her losing her kid), or do I go along with her story (the lie, to protect her), which could result in me getting an assault charge?

what would you guys do? I have actually not spoken to a lawyer at all and there is no court case pending or anything from the result of the police showing up. They didn't arrest anyone and just took her statement and put it in a report really...

she threw you under the bus, return the favor

 

[JimJ 5,000+ posts]

Find roommates that don't have as much baggage, IMO...

 

[IamDeMan 5,000+ posts]

ok i understand that she may need to pay for it too, but we all know what kind of attachments come along w/ loving someone, regardless of the past u still have attachments, ESPECIALLY when a child is involved! his whole thing is lying about it happening to an innocent person, and first off its not like they are going to trial over this shit, and he wont be lying to anyone but his local police dept at most, and he already said he will be talking to child services...now unless she put the baby in direct danger or the baby was harmed in any way, than i dont think she should suffer getting her child taken away..she put her self in a situation where SHE could have been hurt, not anywhere have i read that the baby was mistreated, or harmed at all! how can you justify sitting on the internet, and saying she deserves to lose her child? you know nothing about her!! im sure she takes very good care of her child, she just has emotional attachment to her baby's dad which is expected when you have a child with someone!!! you guys are basing this off of a 1 paragraph statement!! you have no right wut so ever!!

Lying is lying. In this case it's lying that may cause more abuse in the future to an innocent child.
Now where exactly do you get off telling us we don't have the right to voice an opinion? Especially when it was asked for?

Here is my advice for you. Put on your favorite pair of G boxers and baggy pants, tuck your "fo-fo" tightly in the waste band and proceed to walk straight into oncoming traffic.