Treasury Question

[Twistid 5,000+ posts]

considering he stated earlier something about child support thats what i figure it is... so until he moves out on his own or however baby daddy's law's go

i dunno

 

[2002XLT 5,000+ posts]

he is 18, child support is no more my friend..

 

[starkfu 10+ year member]

so did you get this all straightend out?

if not, there is a database that every state keeps for unclaimed property and funds. I suggest you visit the state in question's government website and find the section about unclaimed funds. Your or your late father's name should be in the database, then you just need a lawyer to write up a claim to the money and petition the court that is holding it, usually the state probate court, and work out how you are receiving your money.

My final advice..... don't involve your mom in any way... if you want to give her money, that's up to you, but don't involve her in the process of obtaining it.

 

[starkfu 10+ year member]

he is 18, child support is no more my friend..

not true, I am 27 and my parents are still in court fighting over child support. Although every state is different, it just won't accumulate any more, but interest can still accrue on past due balances.

 

[cj232 10+ year member]

yeah like he said, 1500 a month for how long?

Were not sure, I'll find out after my classes.

 

[cj232 10+ year member]

Well this morning I wake up to hearing her complaining on the phone about me wanting to keep and save my 1500 every month... Unlike my brother who never gave her any money at all.. shes all mad that im not paying a 900 bill she slapped on my door that belongs to HER..the check hasn't been in my possesion for a day and shes ready to spend it all I don't care how mad she is she can wait untill the other check comes im really sick of her shit...

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

How long does this $1500 per month last. Perhaps you should move out?

 

[tRidiot 10+ year member]

Wow... just... wow.

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

How long does this $1500 per month last. Perhaps you should move out?

This is what I was getting at, but he said he isnt sure. I would dam sure find a cheap apartment and move out. Then get a job and jsut save the 1500 a month again.

 

[Twistid 5,000+ posts]

you could actually live a humble life off 1500 a month, if you had a full time job ontop of it however, thats quite a bit of extra spending money!!

600 on the car payment for a 07 sti, 600 for the monthly insurance, 300 for gas and random stuff

 

[HitManSE 10+ year member]

Well this morning I wake up to hearing her complaining on the phone about me wanting to keep and save my 1500 every month... Unlike my brother who never gave her any money at all.. shes all mad that im not paying a 900 bill she slapped on my door that belongs to HER..the check hasn't been in my possesion for a day and shes ready to spend it all I don't care how mad she is she can wait untill the other check comes im really sick of her shit...

I dont know wth your mothers deal is, but her bills are her responsibility.

Try this.

Instead of challenging her for the time being, play along with it. Tell her you've given it some thought, ect. and you'll help her out. However, for now you just need to get the $ thing setup so you can start getting the $ & at the very least get all the info you need about it.

She doesnt need to be acting the way she is, and thats just NOT cool. She buys herself a $50k car and she can even pay a $900 bill? //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/rolleyes.gif.c1fef805e9d1464d377451cd5bc18bfb.gif Yeah right. Sounds like shes just trying to not spend her money IMO.

Just play along until you get your money, at the last moment you can change your tune.

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

you could actually live a humble life off 1500 a month, if you had a full time job ontop of it however, thats quite a bit of extra spending money!!
600 on the car payment for a 07 sti, 600 for the monthly insurance, 300 for gas and random stuff

Id definitely keep a job and have that 1500 extra a month. Id put the majority of it in a money market account, probly like $1000

I dont know wth your mothers deal is, but her bills are her responsibility.
Try this.

Instead of challenging her for the time being, play along with it. Tell her you've given it some thought, ect. and you'll help her out. However, for now you just need to get the $ thing setup so you can start getting the $ & at the very least get all the info you need about it.

She doesnt need to be acting the way she is, and thats just NOT cool. She buys herself a $50k car and she can even pay a $900 bill? //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/rolleyes.gif.c1fef805e9d1464d377451cd5bc18bfb.gif Yeah right. Sounds like shes just trying to not spend her money IMO.

Just play along until you get your money, at the last moment you can change your tune.

Sounds like a good plan.