While I understand your point of view, I think you're getting somewhat out of line. You can have a discussion with a mod about problems without it getting out of hand, and he's not the only one to blame(even if he's the authority figure). Your argument was getting personal, and it was coming from both sides. What needed to have been said was already said. You want the rules to be enforced more, and he wants the members' help. You're on the same side, but you're too busy arguing to realize it. What you don't realize is that with this topic, and others like it, more members, and future members, will understand how the rules work, and what they can do to help. Surely you know that most people signing up just accept the TOS and decide not to read through the rules.
Audioholic: jtossaldfka isn't trying to say that an immature forum is better than it is now. He's not-so-simply stating that he wishes the forum is the same as it was before all of the problematic moderators and such. He's out of line with his accusations, but you should use the respect you're entitled to to change the tone of your argument. Calling him out in posts having nothing to do with him isn't very respectable. On a side note, I think you should update the rules, or make it so that every member is redirected to the rules page before being able to post. I know the admin(Goob? I haven't really paid enough attention to get everyone's names down) can do that. I'm not sure if you know, but the rules page is almost bare, and it's incomplete. The name of the site isn't even defined.