and ive been in the 156s with 2 3" coiled woofers. you dont need 16k watts to be loud. efficiency is where its at (and honestly, the woofers I used weren't even terribly efficient).
more efficient driver= less power needed. less power needed= less heat. less heat= less coil needed.
look, I'm not downing your audio choices, I'm legitimately glad you're happy. however, you cannot logically argue that its not a better idea to have a more efficient setup, all things being equal.
I can say with 1000% certainty, im happier with my current setup than I EVER was with any of my 4" coil drivers. (2 18" tc 5200s, 2 18" tc lms, 2 15" ss xxx).
of course, time could account for a change in taste.