So I'm getting kicked out...

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

Wwdmxd?

wwSMd?

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

wwSMd?

oh lawd, if only he was here.

OP. This is what you need to do. Make list of the shit that she constantly *****es about. Fix those things.

At this point you are just doing what is necessary so that you can stay in school without having to take on the bills that accompany living on your own.

/thread.

 

[bigbangtheory 5,000+ posts]

I am frankly disappointed with some of the people posting in this thread. I don't know the full story, neither does anyone on here, nor does anyone have the right to judge this guy based on what he posted. The point is this: no one cares what you personally did in your life when it comes to him. You working 3 jobs to support 3 kids and your wife and her brother doesn't mean that you know the value of a dollar, it means that you're scraping to make ends meet. How does that give you the authority to tell a teenager how to run his own life? To the people who are cursing and ridiculing him because he doesn't like his stepmother and you think he should respect her, why? Because it's nice? There's clearly a reason why he doesn't like her and if it's bitterness over her not being his actual mother, then fine.
The kid is 19, working during the week as well as taking classes, and attends school full time during the year. This is more than can be said for most of the people talking down about him in this thread. He's trying to make a better life for himself by working and going to school, and therefore, I would say that merely having a roof over his head is a fair deal for any parent to offer. If he wants to move out, then great, thread over, everyone's happy. But if you call him immature for being honest about what he's doing wrong, I just can't understand that reasoning.

To the TS, good luck with the future. I hope you guys can come to some agreement, and I pray you don't take the advice of the people in this thread who are clearly bitter that they didn't have the relationship that you do with your father when they were 19. If anything, sit down and talk to them and try to come to some accord. If not, then it would probably be best for you just to leave. Good luck. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

Yes, you should listen to this 19 year old. He has it all down pat and knows your life as well.

Lemans, the pot wants the kettle back. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/rolleyes.gif.c1fef805e9d1464d377451cd5bc18bfb.gif

Also with the value of a dollar. Please enlighten us as what you think a hard earned dollar is? I mean since you have been through so much shit and all?

 

[Speedbump3]

I am frankly disappointed with some of the people posting in this thread. I don't know the full story, neither does anyone on here, nor does anyone have the right to judge this guy based on what he posted. The point is this: no one cares what you personally did in your life when it comes to him. You working 3 jobs to support 3 kids and your wife and her brother doesn't mean that you know the value of a dollar, it means that you're scraping to make ends meet. How does that give you the authority to tell a teenager how to run his own life? To the people who are cursing and ridiculing him because he doesn't like his stepmother and you think he should respect her, why? Because it's nice? There's clearly a reason why he doesn't like her and if it's bitterness over her not being his actual mother, then fine.
The kid is 19, working during the week as well as taking classes, and attends school full time during the year. This is more than can be said for most of the people talking down about him in this thread. He's trying to make a better life for himself by working and going to school, and therefore, I would say that merely having a roof over his head is a fair deal for any parent to offer. If he wants to move out, then great, thread over, everyone's happy. But if you call him immature for being honest about what he's doing wrong, I just can't understand that reasoning.

To the TS, good luck with the future. I hope you guys can come to some agreement, and I pray you don't take the advice of the people in this thread who are clearly bitter that they didn't have the relationship that you do with your father when they were 19. If anything, sit down and talk to them and try to come to some accord. If not, then it would probably be best for you just to leave. Good luck. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

I find it funny that you think he is giving this story straight.

 

[bigbangtheory 5,000+ posts]

are you close with your family? mom, dad, brothers, sisters? i come from an extremely close family where we all get along and wouldnt even think about calling the cops on each other. sometimes its worth it to pay out of pocket than to risk getting higher insurance premiums or dropped for that matter. im assuming this situation was like that. dad, step mom probably said, my bad well fix your car and didnt come through. i dont know what you think a gated community is but my idea of a gated community usually means rich, houses pretty large so im sure they arent hurting for cash. 1200 bucks to them may not be what 1200 bucks to us would be.
what i meant by saying the dad didnt have balls and was a dick too is that if dad stated keep bedroom door closed, have job, go to school and you have a roof over your head then he should honor that. just cause all of a sudden step mom is jealous or whatever he shouldnt have to move out. original agreement should be honored. i know my dad would never do something like that.

Yes, I am close with my family. Different story for me as it is my family. This dude can't stand this chick, so really all it would be is calling the police and insurance agency. That is all I was saying, especially now with him getting kicked out, although it is probably too late now to get it covered.

Also I know what a gate communtiy is, I used to live by one and have friends that live in it. I even stated it usually means you have money, so not sure why you said that, because you basically repeated what I said. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crazy.gif.c13912c32de98515d3142759a824dae7.gif

Also he is his Dad, if he wants to change the rules, just like that! Then he can, why, because......he can. Is it right, maybe not, but is what it is and he runs the shit, simple as that. You can move on, or make a thread about how shitty your life is on CA.COM. Just depends I guess.

Also, I guarentee he is leaving out more to the story about getting kicked out. I am sure he is getting kicked out, just because his dads chick don't like his son and not keeping his room cleaned. Usually shit like this, builds up and is a lot more too it then he is telling us.

 

[elementxero 10+ year member]

Your dad sounds like he find himself a nice ****y gold digger and he's willing to forget family for her.

Work a little more if you have to, move out and get your head straight. Don't devolve into constantly partying and you will figure it out. There is no way that environment is contributing to anything positive getting going in your life, especially if you are still deciding what you are going to do with it.

Get a studio or grab a couple of roommates. The latter is cheap and if you are in a cool city its a fun experience.

Time to man up broseph, life is best taken by the horns.

..Then again I don't know you or what you are like. It's quite possible that you are just being a ***** for finally getting what's coming to you.

 

[bigbangtheory 5,000+ posts]

For those of you calling me names, and telling me to grow up, look at your spelling/grammar. Calling me names without knowing the full story really makes you come off as an adult.
I'm not some spoiled rich kid like many of you think. Notice how I said "only" $1200 a month? //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif Get a clue.

I've been working my *** off since I was 15 years old. I work FULL TIME, albiet only 3 days a week (3 13 hour shifts). I do more work in one day than many of you have done in your entire lives. I know the value of a dollar, because my body takes a huge hit from my job. I'm not sitting in an office like many of you making $11 an hour, chatting on the car audio forum all day.

I also attend college part time, full time during the fall. I moved in with my dad a year ago last week. I lived up in Michigan with my mom, where I grew up. He offered to let me move in with him, so long as I WORKED and WENT TO SCHOOL. My mom was pretty laid back, and I asked my dad what the rules were. He said respect his wife, and don't trash the house and have parties. I said OK, that's cool. Am I at fault for having a room partly full of clean/dirty clothes? Absolutely. Do I clean my bathroom every day? No. None of you do. I understand I'm living under someone else's roof. I need to change my ways, and show more respect towards his house. I get it.

Regarding "where I live". We're not rich, snooty people. My dad has over 6 years of college under his belt, he worked his *** off to be where he is today. Unlike 99% of you losers on here who are 45 years old and still getting paid by the hour, he made something of himself, and I plan to do the same.

I have no problem following the rules. Like someone else said, if you have EVER been in a private community filled with old fvcks, you know how it is.

My dad has been married to this ***** for over 10 years now, her entire family pretty much hates her. My dad only gives me shit because she's on HIS back 24/7 about the most retarded stuff.

On the way down here, my dad told me as long as I kept my door shut, I could live however I wanted to in my room. As long as I didn't trash the walls or the carpet. I've done neither. Now all of a sudden he has turned on me, because of the cvnt he married.

I make $600 every weekend, and I earn every dollar of it. But the majority of it goes to my car payment, and other fixed costs that I'm not going to get in to.

So before you start calling me names, take a reading comprehension class and learn how to type/spell and know your grammar. And atleast know the full situation.

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It's scary to think some of you have children, I wonder how they'll turn out.

Hey dude, why don't you dig yourself a bigger grave on here?

First the Wendys chick, then the sub issue and now this shit! Oh yeah, you listen real good and abide all the rules set out. Thats why you are getting tickets in a gated community. Your nothing but a punk kid that deserves all the hardships in life that look to be coming your way very soon. Your dad is a very smart man and I can see why he wouldn't want some shit *** kid that has no respect for his girl out of the house. I would do the same thing to your bish *** as well.

Hey, I misspelled some words, at least I never got kicked out my house and can provide for my family. Here you are saying you need time to save out, but yet you claim to make all this money. If so, then quite your *****ing on here and go put that money to good use and put a roof over your head. How long did you want to live at home anyway? Your 19 bishing on an audio fourm for christs sake. I betcha your dad is real proud of your ***!

 

[jdawg90 10+ year member]

Hey dude, why don't you dig yourself a bigger grave on here?
First the Wendys chick, then the sub issue and now this shit! Oh yeah, you listen real good and abide all the rules set out. Thats why you are getting tickets in a gated community. Your nothing but a punk kid that deserves all the hardships in life that look to be coming your way very soon. Your dad is a very smart man and I can see why he wouldn't want some shit *** kid that has no respect for his girl out of the house. I would do the same thing to your bish *** as well.

Hey, I misspelled some words, at least I never got kicked out my house and can provide for my family. Here you are saying you need time to save out, but yet you claim to make all this money. If so, then quite your *****ing on here and go put that money to good use and put a roof over your head. How long did you want to live at home anyway? Your 19 bishing on an audio fourm for christs sake. I betcha your dad is real proud of your ***!

and you have 19,000 fucking posts for christs sake

And i think he said most of his money went to his car payment

 

[BoomBoomBoy 10+ year member]

I am frankly disappointed with some of the people posting in this thread. I don't know the full story, neither does anyone on here, nor does anyone have the right to judge this guy based on what he posted. The point is this: no one cares what you personally did in your life when it comes to him. You working 3 jobs to support 3 kids and your wife and her brother doesn't mean that you know the value of a dollar, it means that you're scraping to make ends meet. How does that give you the authority to tell a teenager how to run his own life? To the people who are cursing and ridiculing him because he doesn't like his stepmother and you think he should respect her, why? Because it's nice? There's clearly a reason why he doesn't like her and if it's bitterness over her not being his actual mother, then fine.
The kid is 19, working during the week as well as taking classes, and attends school full time during the year. This is more than can be said for most of the people talking down about him in this thread. He's trying to make a better life for himself by working and going to school, and therefore, I would say that merely having a roof over his head is a fair deal for any parent to offer. If he wants to move out, then great, thread over, everyone's happy. But if you call him immature for being honest about what he's doing wrong, I just can't understand that reasoning.

To the TS, good luck with the future. I hope you guys can come to some agreement, and I pray you don't take the advice of the people in this thread who are clearly bitter that they didn't have the relationship that you do with your father when they were 19. If anything, sit down and talk to them and try to come to some accord. If not, then it would probably be best for you just to leave. Good luck. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

GTFO!

 

[jpd2621 10+ year member]

bigbangtheory:Also I know what a gate communtiy is, I used to live by one and have friends that live in it. I even stated it usually means you have money, so not sure why you said that, because you basically repeated what I said. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crazy.gif.c13912c32de98515d3142759a824dae7.gif

my friend lives in a gated apartment community that is $560 a month... gates don't mean shit. i know plenty of rich neighborhoods that don't have gates and ones that do. having a gate doesn't mean someone is rich. most retirement homes have gated communities so people who dont live there cant come in. it in no way means your rich though. thats a pretty dumb statement that everyone has been making. i'm sure your an intelligent person, but that is a very dumb statement.

 

[miker 5,000+ posts]

I find it funny that you think he is giving this story straight.

I find it funny that you are thinking he is not giving it straight for no ****ing reason at all.

There is more reason to believe him than not..

 

[BoomBoomBoy 10+ year member]

Bottom line, he's living in their house and needs to follow whatever rules they put out for him or move out on his own, PERIOD!

/thread

 

[bigbangtheory 5,000+ posts]

bigbangtheory:Also I know what a gate communtiy is, I used to live by one and have friends that live in it. I even stated it usually means you have money, so not sure why you said that, because you basically repeated what I said. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crazy.gif.c13912c32de98515d3142759a824dae7.gif
my friend lives in a gated apartment community that is $560 a month... gates don't mean shit. i know plenty of rich neighborhoods that don't have gates and ones that do. having a gate doesn't mean someone is rich. most retirement homes have gated communities so people who dont live there cant come in. it in no way means your rich though. thats a pretty dumb statement that everyone has been making. i'm sure your an intelligent person, but that is a very dumb statement.

Do you kids read or just speed read posts? When I say usually, it means most times, not all times. Learn to comprehend and quote correctly.

Also it matters where you live. Every state is different with cost of living and what not. Derrr!

 

[bigbangtheory 5,000+ posts]

and you have 19,000 fucking posts for christs sake
And i think he said most of his money went to his car payment

Ohh, good one young whippersnapper!

Please tell me what 19,000 posts means? Been here since 2005 as a member and a guest since 2004.

I have also only mentioned a 1000 times why I have so many posts, but I believe I could put it in bold letters for ya and you still wouldn't understand why. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/rolleyes.gif.c1fef805e9d1464d377451cd5bc18bfb.gif

Figures all these people are most of these pepple sticking up for him are fairly young and probably get the same treatment minus maybe Lemans. He is just in la la land.

 

[DB_DRAG_SPL 10+ year member]

This thread is a ****ing abortion.