*** ruining relationship?

OK...OK....OK, I know, but I feel like you all are alot olderand mature when it comes to this stuff. I just wanted to get some input on the situation. And just try to get a conversation started up...

But thanks for the head up....

 
It's all part of growing up. In the long run, how you handle the relationship in terms of how it's presented to you doesn't mean much. It's how you respond and react to it that helps you become the person you're going to be. Don't stress yourself out over this, and don't put so much heed in other peoples advice. Go with what you feel is right and work from there. Regardless of how it turns out, it will make you a better person the long run.

 
That was some good advice and I will really listen to what you said that time. I guess I just got to go with the flow, what happens happens.....

Thanks for the advice, you all were alot of help..

 
what i think you should do is to do what you want. honestly, if you want to have *** then do it. i wouldn't weigh so much of your decision on how it will affect the relationship. honestly, if you two are that close and are really meant to be or whatever, then *** won't make things worse. If they do make things worse, then it's better than you waiting a couple more months and having *** and ending it then. I think if your waiting because you don't want to start problems, then you are just delaying your problems and making it harder on yourself. If you want to have ***, then do it. Don't build your life around the relationship, let the relationship build around your life. If it doesn't work, then you still have your life. The problems occur when you try to change your life for a relationship and then you break up. Then your stuck with nothing.

That's my philosophy atleast. I have been through 2 tough break-ups before I finally realized it myself and I have been doing well since then. Good luck man.

EDIT: sorry, didn't see you already made up your mind. what i said pretty much just goes along with what you decided to do. good luck

 
If *** ruins your relationship, chances are it *really* wasnt the *** that ruined it...IT was some other hidden varible that never really came out....If you are both ready for *** with each other then it will only make things better...If you guys have *** and break up, it wasnt b/c of the ***...If a girl "likes change" and gets tired of *** with you and wants *** with someone else...well she isnt worth being with for an extended period of time anyway...So just do her and forget it....If she is someone you care about and who cares deeply for you *** will only make things better and you will be drawn closer to each other for it....That is just MY OPINION....take it how you will.

-Ian

 
Alright look man, just slip her the date **** drug, do it with her and see how you like it. Then next time the *** talk comes up between you two you can just say HA we already did it and then it wont even be an issue anymore!

Case closed

 
If she is someone you care about and who cares deeply for you *** will only make things better and you will be drawn closer to each other for it....

That is what I have heard.....

And I will make sure she //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/eek.gif.771b7a90cf45cabdc554ff1121c21c4a.gif, and then //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/eek.gif.771b7a90cf45cabdc554ff1121c21c4a.gif, and //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/eek.gif.771b7a90cf45cabdc554ff1121c21c4a.gif, and //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/eek.gif.771b7a90cf45cabdc554ff1121c21c4a.gif's, some more.....

 
I wouldn't do it. Once you do it.. it turns into a more and more common thing, and not just once in a while. It will eventually grow to be the cause of making the relationship not work. Trust me. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif

 
I wouldn't do it. Once you do it.. it turns into a more and more common thing, and not just once in a while. It will eventually grow to be the cause of making the relationship not work. Trust me. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif
i disagree, to a point. It could do that, but I would guess that for the most part it would only bring you closer. It will make you two connect on another level. Just make sure you both are satisfied with it. Just don't think of yourself. Give and you shall receive //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif

 
i disagree, to a point. It could do that, but I would guess that for the most part it would only bring you closer. It will make you two connect on another level. Just make sure you both are satisfied with it. Just don't think of yourself. Give and you shall receive //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif


Oh I am pretty much sure I am a man. I make sure she is satisfied at everything that I do for her. I worry about her not me.......

 
Let's end this thread right now. Fu*k the shit out of her. :thumbsup
Actually stop just before the shit starts coming out......that can get messy! //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif

 
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