*** ruining relationship?

[BDIDDY 10+ year member]

I know this is dumb and flame if you want, but I this is where I come to ask basically everything so I figured this would be no different.....But to my question, I am 16 and have a GF. Now I wanted to know, at this age could *** ruin a relationship? I am not talking having *** 17 times a month, but just here and there? I think it does and thats why I told her I just want to do it once. But anyways, feel free to reply.

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[alove_85 10+ year member]

nah, not if its good for both of you

 

[Bumpin03 10+ year member]

what are the reasons why you think it would ruin the relationship? if anything, i think it would bring you two closer and maybe add some more excitement (different positions) to the relationship.

 

[LuNaTiC 10+ year member]

i dont think itll ruin the relationship, i also dont think youll only do it once after u do it the first time. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif

peace

 

[Gauntlet 5,000+ posts]

*** can ruin relationships, and it can also make them great. It all depends on the two of you.

I'll tell you this much, if both of you are virgins, and you have ***, you're asking for a horrible break-up. I've taken two V-cards in my life, and both times the girls became incredibly attached to me. It wasn't fun.

 

[Wonderbread 5,000+ posts]

most people's first 'big love' is a tough breakup. That's just the nature of the game. Be smart, be safe.

 

[80_Cutlass_mn 10+ year member]

Ill go ahead and tell you this, I have a friend that has been going out with his g/f for nearly 8 months now and theyve be having *** nearly once a week. Its good for both of them and an atomic bomb couldnt break them apart. So it realy depends on the people involved. For some it will make it stronger, and for some it makes it horrible.

 

[BDIDDY 10+ year member]

Well......I thought I would get flamed for this...First off I think it would have a chance to ruin the relationship because you hit and then you are like well its getting old, hmmm...time to find another one. Second off no we are not virgin's, so no worries there. But I had this girl tell me that *** makes the girl like you alot more, and I would ask how will I know if the *** is good, but you all would flame me. And since most of the people if not all that replied have girls, when did you and that someone first say I love you to each other? Like the time period in the relationship, ex. 3months, 3 weeks?

 

[jbl_marshall21 10+ year member]

i know a guy and a girl that 16 and 17 and they do it everyday. if they skip a day they make it up. they don't have any problems.

i think some *** is good. but too much at a young age probably for a relation ship isn't.

 

[Gauntlet 5,000+ posts]

I'm 23 and I've never said I love you to a girl, and I won't for awhile. It just creates problems in my opinion.

 

[alove_85 10+ year member]

I realized I loved my girl after about 4 months, but there is no time frame, and you should never just say it. You should feel it. It feels alot better saying I love you when you really mean it....

 

[Silica 10+ year member]

*** can ruin a relationships, some gurls are rediculous... if your gurlfriend gets board of things quick, or likes rapid change, *** is only going to end in doom, she will like it for a bit then think about what it would be like with someone else, and thats only gonna hurt you more... trust me, its happend..

Tim //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/titanic.gif.8089b7552c370bcc138aa121756d0c0b.gif

 

[BDIDDY 10+ year member]

I'll ask her that, and I am pretty sure she won't lie to me, but I have been reading threads about girls lately, Excellent one at http://www.caraudioforum.com, and they have done nothing but get me down. Always talking how you can't trust girls and they cheat........But I'll ask her if she likes change, or whatever silica said...

 

[Gauntlet 5,000+ posts]

RULE NUMBER ONE

Don't take anything said on message boards too seriously. Only you know the situation, only you know what kind of girl she is, only you know how the relationship is going on, and only you know what you want. Everything said here should be taken with a grain of salt.

 

[Wonderbread 5,000+ posts]

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