quoting my mom

[tRiGgEr 5,000+ posts]

So. You want a tissue or somthin.

 

[HiAmplidude 10+ year member]

shes just *****ing cause we dont give a shit that she has a cold and she wants us to like be servents to her just because of it

Man, that has nothing to do with it. She knows what should be coming to her for carrying her kids' through existence for decades but gets lip instead of acknowledgement and compassion.

I'm 33 and have 2 younger brothers and we all feel bad now about some of the crap we put our mom through. When you get older, especially after you have a family of your own, you'll know what I'm talking about.

Smart-as$ kids thinking they have it all figured out, when they've barely scratched the surface of reality, talkin' smack to the people they should be showing utmost respect to for the sacrifices they've made for that sacred existence... Parents say some evil shit out of frustration some times, believe me, I've heard, seen, and felt much worse than you can imagine, but the kids punk as$es pretty much push them to that point (I was one of them, and at least have the conciousness to acknowledge it -- do you?).

It may feel all tough and shit, and boost your insecure little ego to pick on someone who's proven to love you enough to eat it, to talk back to mom and piss on her decades of carrying your sorry as$, but what you should be doing is making her a mug of hot tea with honey -- don't ask if she wants it, just do it and give it to her. Then, ask if she's feeling chills and bring the space heater near her, if she is. See if she's craving for something like ice cream or anything else that'll make her feel better -- she deserves it, and it sucks to feel like crap in a place where nobody else seems to care.

The minescule little experiences in your short life barely add up to a week of burden for a parent, especially of multiple kids. Give her a f'ing break. You and your bro' know that statement she made isn't literal -- read between the lines -- she's saying "THIS SUCKS"... and it does.

 

[MemphisSoul4U 10+ year member]

Man, that has nothing to do with it. She knows what should be coming to her for carrying her kids' through existence for decades but gets lip instead of acknowledgement and compassion.
I'm 33 and have 2 younger brothers and we all feel bad now about some of the crap we put our mom through. When you get older, especially after you have a family of your own, you'll know what I'm talking about.

Smart-as$ kids thinking they have it all figured out, when they've barely scratched the surface of reality, talkin' smack to the people they should be showing utmost respect to for the sacrifices they've made for that sacred existence... Parents say some evil shit out of frustration some times, believe me, I've heard, seen, and felt much worse than you can imagine, but the kids punk as$es pretty much push them to that point (I was one of them, and at least have the conciousness to acknowledge it -- do you?).

It may feel all tough and shit, and boost your insecure little ego to pick on someone who's proven to love you enough to eat it, to talk back to mom and piss on her decades of carrying your sorry as$, but what you should be doing is making her a mug of hot tea with honey -- don't ask if she wants it, just do it and give it to her. Then, ask if she's feeling chills and bring the space heater near her, if she is. See if she's craving for something like ice cream or anything else that'll make her feel better -- she deserves it, and it sucks to feel like crap in a place where nobody else seems to care.

The minescule little experiences in your short life barely add up to a week of burden for a parent, especially of multiple kids. Give her a f'ing break. You and your bro' know that statement she made isn't literal -- read between the lines -- she's saying "THIS SUCKS"... and it does.

x2... You will probably grow older and wiser, and think to yourself "At times, I really sucked as a son..."

 

[PESteele 10+ year member]

yea i get that but she wouldnt accept anything we said even if it was good.

 

[Ignatowski 5,000+ posts]

that kinda stuff can scar a child for life.......

Hopefully your bro is smart enough to know his mom is an assshole

 

[HiAmplidude 10+ year member]

yea i get that but she wouldnt accept anything we said even if it was good.

Just wait 'till you have a wife. You'll figure out pretty dam^ fast that "pissed at the dishes not getting done" means something TOTALLY different. It could mean anything, and you gotta' blow it off or expect a loooong evening of "serious discussions".

It could mean a bad day at work, or she caught you doing something you shouldn't, that she doesn't want to bring up right away, or even "she's just pissed at the dishes not being done".

Some times, it's best to walk away and not stoke the fire. Seriously.

Anyone who thinks the parent needs to kneel down to their kids, for fear of legal recourse, is a f'ing retard. Kids need direction, and if they're asking for a little bit of harshness because they do it themselves, so be it. You posted only one side of the story -- admit it.

Yea, parents can cross the line and call a little girl "fat" until she kills herself in her teens, or tell a boy "he'll never make it as a real man" his entire life and make fun of his privates, so he turns into some psycho gay serial killer. That's scarring for life, but being a real, caring, ambitious, dilligent, adoring, loving, and not f'ed up parent, is difficult. You can't be a total puss and expect the kid to have any chance. Some times, you have to be an ******* and get the job done as a parent, plain and simple. If you don't, when it's necessary, you don't give a crap how they turn out.

If you're a fcuk to the kid all the time, for no reason, then yea, screw you as a parent. Otherwise, stand up. Be a parent. Teach. Be strong -- that's where they'll get it from. Don't abuse. Just show -- what is right, what is wrong. Enforce the fact that they are intelligent enough to distinguish the difference for themselves, particularly when they're on their own.

 

[Nukedsodapop 5,000+ posts]

She should have finished it off with a "/ thread". Thats when you know someones serious.

^^^ its true.

lol

-Blake

 

[dak0ta_g33k 10+ year member]

stolen from maddox teh pirate:

 

[bigbangtheory 5,000+ posts]

Wish my mom said that. Instead she told me "Get your dick out of her *** before I stick my fist up yours!" True story