need some help.........im a loser

[saywhat? 5,000+ posts]

Alright so i'm talkin to this chic on the phone and shit, and im supposed to chill with her tomorrow. I mean what could be the worst that could happen? If shes not as pretty as i think she is then I get grief from my boys and I keep her as a friend right? Well I have only seen a pic of her, and we are chillin tomorrow just to see whats cool with us. We talk on the phone constantly and she sounds gorgeous, u know the girl thats fine with the voice to match. She says she doesn't like how she looks, and I want a girl that likes what she has to work with. I understand some girls just need someone to make them feel good and make them realize they are pretty, but I don't know if i'm good to have a chic that doesn't know shes pretty. Now I know a lot of dudes like a thicker chic and she says she is, which is not my worry, but I personally have a limit on how i like my girls. I don't go for what lemans likes........"you know when its bad if u say lets go to bed and she lays down on the floor".....I think thick girls are just as beautiful as anyone, I just dont know if i'm good for a relationship, you know just doin what I need to, to keep things together. You guys think I should just chill with her and see what's cool between us and all and say take it for what it's worth? If something happens with us, let it happen and see what goes from there?

Please, no dumbass remarks. People that actually have went through this give some help please. Advice is all appreciated.

___NO I have'nt met the girl in person, but talkin on the phone she seems like a bad *** girl. So I want to chill just to give it a chance you know? Cmon guys, be serious for once___

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[jmeifert893 10+ year member]

go for it bro whats the worst that could happen

 

[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

agreed.......go chill.....nothing wrong w/ getting to know someone in person......but i hate to tell ya this but u seem like your a little too concerned about what otehrs might think....if she makes u happy...thats all that matters.....if the "boys" give u shit.....well....they arnt that great of friends to begin w/......

 

[theCybe 5,000+ posts]

Ha; Check my mySpace, and look at my friends. That's how they all got there. Half of them are a decent lay, the rest are evil *****es. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

http://www.myspace.com/cybe

 

[theCybe 5,000+ posts]

* and the worst that could happen is you could end up at the pataskala police department at 4am with some crazy ***** who thinks she's a "juggalo" chasing you drunk, screaming, running with a knife, and throwing cordless phones.

Just my two cents. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif

 

[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

* and the worst that could happen is you could end up at the pataskala police department at 4am with some crazy ***** who thinks she's a "juggalo" chasing you drunk, screaming, running with a knife, and throwing cordless phones.

speak from experience?//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif

 

[saywhat? 5,000+ posts]

agreed.......go chill.....nothing wrong w/ getting to know someone in person......but i hate to tell ya this but u seem like your a little too concerned about what otehrs might think....if she makes u happy...thats all that matters.....if the "boys" give u shit.....well....they arnt that great of friends to begin w/......

And i hate to tell ya, but i was all for it 'till i told my boys what she said about not having so much confidence. They kept saying thats not a good sign, but I also think to myself like......why should i care what they think if me and her are happy, thats what i tried getting into this for, cuz i thought she was cool. not because they said to do it.

 

[Gauntlet 5,000+ posts]

 

[JimJ 5,000+ posts]

Don't scare me like that...

Ever again.

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[snb778 5,000+ posts]

thats a scary picture. hahaha, i love how your soo serious about this....you must really need some *****.!

 

[Gauntlet 5,000+ posts]

Don't scare me like that...
Ever again.

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I was just showing off the underwear you got me. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif

 

[saywhat? 5,000+ posts]

i guess she COULD look like that...

 

[saywhat? 5,000+ posts]

thats a scary picture. hahaha, i love how your soo serious about this....you must really need some *****.!

nah, i dont NEED anything...im just tryin to see whats gunna happen and shit. Some here have seen her and have not said anything negetive so im thinkin whats the worst that could happen.

 

[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

like i said....your worrying far too much over all this......jus relax....have a nice time....and treat her like a woman deserves to be treated

 

[swaptrex 10+ year member]

tell one of your friends to call you about a half an hour after you go to see her, that way if you aren't diggin her you can say that was your mom and you have to go home. works every time...