Bluntman420
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actually.....peeing in her butt probably wouldnt be a bad idea....you should think about it...lol
Beat_Dominator
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^ good advice.
2kchevy06civic
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actually this is funny. I am in a very similar situation, here is my story. So I went to school with this girl, never knew her, but she was a dixie bell (cheerleader type thing). Senior trip, we go to mexico (playa del carman, cancun) anyways, I get to meet this chick by dancing with her so we get to talkin and we are both laughin and having a good time. Problem comes, we get back to the states and I have a hard time calling her because I am nervous about asking her out. Solution: I call her up and ask her if she wants to meet up at a local coffee joint to talk. Which turns into going to a movie, which is soon to turn into let's just hangout someplace alone. Bottom line, what worked for me is I was confident in what I did, even though I was nervous inside. For instance, when calling her up I was short and sweet, she had plans but I did the "hard to get act", saying "that's fine just call me whenever you wanna do something" and said goodbye. Eventually she called.
The other part which is similar is she is going to college (8 hours away) in august. I'm not going to bring up the "long distance relationship" talk until things are a little more serious. So you shouldn't either.
don't tell her how you feel, it scares people away if the thought is to soon. She knows, and shows it by hanging out with you.
sorry if this was long, but I felt the need to show, YOU ARE NOT ALONE
The other part which is similar is she is going to college (8 hours away) in august. I'm not going to bring up the "long distance relationship" talk until things are a little more serious. So you shouldn't either.
don't tell her how you feel, it scares people away if the thought is to soon. She knows, and shows it by hanging out with you.
sorry if this was long, but I felt the need to show, YOU ARE NOT ALONE
Bluntman420
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ok....finally some real advice.....and on a serious note...id agree with him
OP
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Well chevy, your post gave me a little more confidence. I call her up sometimes to ask if she wants to hang out and find something to do and sometimes she'll have to go do something, work, ect. but I usually get a call back later on. The thing that throws me off is she usually only calls me when she's already with someone and wants me to come hang out with them. Maybe it's the hard to get game, I don't know.
Bluntman420
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**sniff** **sniff** smells like a 3some?
Randy Savage
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Give her herpes.
It's the gift that keeps on giving.
It's the gift that keeps on giving.
2kchevy06civic
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Learn to swim
The only reason I have confidence is the fact that I have been working out for a little over 4 months now and I look a lot better than before, so no worries there friend.
how many times have you called and she has said "I have work, or something else to do?" She may only like you when she is drunk, or only likes you when she feels like it.
If she calls when she is with someone I think you should hang out with her anyways. Atleast that will give you a chance to hang out with her and perhaps get her away for just a minute to talk to her alone. Make the plans then, but make plans that involve talking not sitting and watching a movie.
I'm not real sure what else to tell ya man, sounds to me like she doesn't know what she wants or is just teasing you. Personally, I don't like to play games and move on but after seeing her pic I would give her more time then usual.
OP
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I get the "I'm working" thing maybe half the time but I can tell she's actually at work. I'll try calling her, let it ring a couple times, and hang up then get a call back from her a minute or two later and I can hear the echo of the bathroom she's hiding in to call me. I know she doesn't just hang out with me when she's drunk because I've hung out with her dozens of times and can count the number of times I've hung out with her drunk on one hand. If she only hangs out with me when she feels like it, it works out pretty convienently because it's when we're both not working (which is rare).
Like you suggested, I do hang out with her even when it's with a group of people, mainly because I just like being around her. I do get that short minute every once and a while where we're alone and can sit and talk but it's over all too soon.
I don't like playing games either, especially now that I've started a new job where I work with plently of attractive and available girls but I'm just stuck on this one for some reason...
2kchevy06civic
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well this is better information. Obviously then she wants to do something with you, if she calls back and you guys have hung out plenty of times before. I suggest than, whenever you do get that small window to talk say "the next night you are available how about you and I go play a round of mini-golf."
You can say something more to ur liking I'm just giving an example. By saying this though you can see if she really wants to possibly date by her answer and let her know you are very interested (more than just the hanging out with multiple people events)
You need to get confident in the question though and get it over with, otherwise you may be wasting your time my friend =/.....
You can say something more to ur liking I'm just giving an example. By saying this though you can see if she really wants to possibly date by her answer and let her know you are very interested (more than just the hanging out with multiple people events)
You need to get confident in the question though and get it over with, otherwise you may be wasting your time my friend =/.....
Bluntman420
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if her friends dont like you.....she wont like you //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif
alove_85
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i wont ask but that doesnt sounds good
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