I'm from San Diego county.That was close to 30 years ago whem I did that.First thing on her special day make sure you send her roses.Make sure that you send them where she recieves them in front of her grlfriends[women love that shit] plus,if things don't work out in the future,her friends will know that you know how to treat a lady.Make sure that you profess your total love for her on this special day and with that tell her that you will make it a "night to remember"[shalomar--1980's group].Then ,take her to dinner at Anthony's or the Blue Crab.After dinner take her for a romantic walk on Shelter Island.Make sure that she doesn't know that you have a room at the DOLPHIN Motel[xxxx rated] 60.00 per night --weekends.The inside is all white linen ,hot tub for two,mirrors on walls and ceiling and to top it off---4 channels of ***** at no extra charge...........roses-40.00..........room.......60.00...dinner 70.00.............A night you will both remember...I guarantee it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!