My mistake in my post I had 4 passives, 2 on the back opposite the subs one one on each side. As I said, you def couldn't tell what speaker was what. The roll-off of a PR setup is steeper below tuning, it's a 5th order rolloff vs a 4th order, but that doesn't really make a difference as you shouldnt' be trying to play much below tuning anyways. I also had an issue ripping passives for a while when, until I switched to the creative sound ones. My theory was the interal space inside by box was too small and somehow the magnets on the subs were causing non linear behavior from the passives, ripping the spider. same passive every time too, trust me I know how you felt lol. Once I finally switched to the creative sounds ones without the weight on the back, they have handled everything I have thrown at them perfectly and they are super to adjust, love them. They don't have the excursion of the TC sounds,but really it's not needed. Run TC passives in a 1:1 ratio and odds are you still need a second one because your excursion will be 50mm or something silly. Once you go up to a 2:1 ratio, excursion drops MUCH lower and you no longer need 45mm, the 34 I have is enough lol. Right now I'm only using 3 passives on a 21 with A LOT of motor force (just a touch weaker than a TC 5200) and they are fine with 1200 watts applied, once I go to 2-3k, I'll need to add another one.
Also, if correctly utitlized a ported or PR box will have better SQ than a sealed box, all things equal. They are lower in distortion, just harder to get correct frequency response, but once you do, they sound great. My subs were pretty low Q and worked very well in a small ported box tuned very low, which is hard to build with a standard port, especially inside a trunk. They exhibited a falling response similar to most good IB setups with a Q of around .5, but had the reduced distortion levels due to being ported.
Anyway a proper port is better than a proper passive in most respects, but proper ports are hard to come by in cars in some cases. Like in my case, to build a box for 2 15's ported tuned where it would sound the best, I'd need around 7 cubic feet internal before port displacements, no way in heck that was fitting in my trunk. I'd either have to use an undersized port, compromise my tuning, or both. Passives don't take up any displacement, so I only needed a 5 cubic foot box with enough surface areas to mount the passives. That's the advantage of a passive, you have no port compression to deal with, vent displacements, port noise, and they are infinitely adjustable. Sure if your in can fit anything, then ports are the better way to go, if you can't, passives can be a ideal solution.