Miscegenation or interracial relationships? Opinions?

[phantom240 5,000+ posts]

How can a person that only exists with a set also be out of a set?

Uh, what?

Well, what I meant was in my age group (17-23 Ideally), most girls are highly immature as far as values of where they want to be, know what they want in a man, etc. Most are still out there in that "*** is everything" part of life. *** is great, dont get me wrong, but I cant stand having stupid/nonsensical/"blonde" girls. You know what kind of girls I mean.

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

Uh, what?
Well, what I meant was in my age group (17-23 Ideally), most girls are highly immature as far as values of where they want to be, know what they want in a man, etc. Most are still out there in that "*** is everything" part of life. *** is great, dont get me wrong, but I cant stand having stupid/nonsensical/"blonde" girls. You know what kind of girls I mean.

You mentioned that some of the people in your age group is older than dirt.

 

[AllStar1500bd 5,000+ posts]

i'd say 7/10 black chicks i know are loud, obnoxious, rude, annoying, trashy or hateful.

So that makes those other 3/10 perfectly normal?

 

[phantom240 5,000+ posts]

You mentioned that some of the people in your age group is older than dirt.

Meh. Wording gets the best of me at times. What I meant was finding a "mature" girl who isnt old as dirt, and ugly as sin (i.e. in my age group, and not groteque looking)

 

[Omarvelous 10+ year member]

i'd say 7/10 black chicks i know are loud, obnoxious, rude, annoying, trashy or hateful.

Where I live there are about 4 black girls and I can't understand a single one of em. Most have kids and such allready and imo a kid is a no-no.

Yea, I mean all the apples in a bunch aren't the same. I think that highly has to do with their upbringing. If a black kid grows up around white kids, most likely if you speak to them on the phone, you wouldn't be able to distinguish him from his friends. Same vise versa.

Growing up in a large city, allowed me to be exposed to almost all the possibilities. So almost nothing shocks me. And it's broadened my perception and sensitivity to individual culture and differences.

Going to college woke me up, and made me realize, not everyone has interacted with a black or asian person. Or can actually recall that only 3 kids in their whole highschool were black.

This world is 2 big to think that it's even possible for a whole race to act the same, regardless of the other factors.

Not saying you guys believe that, but just saying, even if 100% of the black girls YOU know are like that, don't let that be the reason you shut em out, you might be shutting out your soulmate..... even if she has a kid! lol!

 

[jmanpc 5,000+ posts]

So that makes those other 3/10 perfectly normal?

pretty much.

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

This world is 2 big to think that it's even possible for a whole race to act the same, regardless of the other factors.

Not saying you guys believe that, but just saying, even if 100% of the black girls YOU know are like that, don't let that be the reason you shut em out, you might be shutting out your soulmate..... even if she has a kid! lol!

Our experiences give us stereotypes. We need stereotypes to make quick decisions. We don't have the time to thorughly investigate people. Thus, we must rely on our stereotypes.

 

[phantom240 5,000+ posts]

I know a couple oreos... or really just black people that in the dark, you could swear were white.

Anywayz, yeah its 90% in the upbringing..

 

[Omarvelous 10+ year member]

Uh, what?
Well, what I meant was in my age group (17-23 Ideally), most girls are highly immature as far as values of where they want to be, know what they want in a man, etc. Most are still out there in that "*** is everything" part of life. *** is great, dont get me wrong, but I cant stand having stupid/nonsensical/"blonde" girls. You know what kind of girls I mean.

Most GIRLS your age group????? Wow.... I thought there was a lot of truth in the saying "girls mature faster then guys" and being a Guy, i strongly believe that.

But judging by your post phantom240, not to attack you personally or anything, but I don't think you fully grasp what maturity is..... Or atleast i'd say you still have some maturing to do.

Hair on ur chin or balls don't make you "Mature"

 

[jmanpc 5,000+ posts]

ghettoness is annoying.

 

[Omarvelous 10+ year member]

Our experiences give us stereotypes. We need stereotypes to make quick decisions. We don't have the time to thorughly investigate people. Thus, we must rely on our stereotypes.

Oh trust me i know. Not saying "don't" do it, it's a natuaral thing we do, we group.

But just saying just try to remind yourself, this is just a sampling.

 

[Omarvelous 10+ year member]

Well it seems as though you dont get out often. Go have a conversation with your average black person, aged between 18-28. Then come back, and tell me what percentage, without having to resort to process of elimination, you could understand.


Oh and btw. "we're all from africa"? ROFL. Thats a good one.

So This is only a problem that white people have to face with black people?

Do you think you could have this same problem with a white person? Or that a black person could have this with a white person?

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

So This is only a problem that white people have to face with black people?
Do you think you could have this same problem with a white person? Or that a black person could have this with a white person?

I have that problem with ignorant people of any race.

Blacks tend to invent more words than white that are not found in the dictionary, such as shawty.

 

[jmanpc 5,000+ posts]

a hoe is a gardening tool //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

Well, I could deduce that "hoe" is short for *****, based on context.

Shawty, on the other hand, I had no idea.