Miscegenation or interracial relationships? Opinions?

[Omarvelous 10+ year member]

Actually, there is more to the story than that.
I, too, was curious about the desire for white girls to date black men. I am talking about the white girls who exclusively date black men. To be exclusive of others is logical (fear of the unknown, racism, etc) but to be exclusive of "like" doesn't make much sense.

I asked many girls and it boiled down to this: physical security. Public perception is that black males are typically more agressive that white males. The girls feel a black male is more likely to fight for them (and conversely fight with them [which they perceive as attention]).

One of them brought up an interesting point. If you were in the mall with your girlfriend and someone grabbed their purse. What would you do? I know on the internet everyone is John Wayne. But I was honest. I told her I would do nothing. I would call and cancel the credit cards and other than that, I would do nothing.

The reason is that I would analyze the risk of getting beat up/injured/killed/I beat them up and get arrested/sued etc vs. the reward of retrieving the items. In mu opinion, it is far easier to replace the missing goods than to take that risk.

The girls percieve a black man on the other hand to attempt to retrieve the purse. They would do it without this analysis. This makes them feel safe. Safe that no one will bother them, and if they do their man will save the day.

I do not provide that level of security. I then queried, what about financial security? I will always make more than a typical black male, therefore, I can provide a level of security he cannot. Does that account for something?

The answer was yes, but.

It also reinforces Maslow's Hiearchy of Needs in a different kind of way.

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If you talk to girls of somewhat maturity, you will find this to be true also.

However, you are correct in that a percentage do it for ***, rebellion, experiment, etc.

See.... some1 like you!!! is why i have hope for these forums. VERY valid points...

And i can agree that maybe they "feel" more secure, because they "feel" that a black man is more inclined to fight rather then flight.... But i'm sure there are white guys that would fight as much or more then a black man would....

So yes, i can agree with this. Same reason why more women want "Strong" men as opposed to "scranny" men.

As far as the exclusive of like comment, i'd venture to guess the same reason why they sought after the first black man, whether ***, protection, difference, is the same reason they seek the next, and the other, and the other. I'd venture to guess, that most likely.... all those guys share some similarities....

Now if all those guys LOOK the same.... might be she's just physically attracted to black men.

Me, i'm in love with the meat on the bones women, a huge fan of big butts/thighs, wide hips, and fuller lips....That combination is MOST likely on a woman of color, BUT believe me, i'd give a white girl a shot that had those same qualities.

Kinda 4got my point... lol... but yea, it just might be what attracts her. Like why some people think bulldogs are cute..... and why i think the cane corso is a good looking dog.... lol weird interjection, but you get the point!

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

Nice. Yeah, I think that sums it up. Unfortunately, in the age group which I'm a part of and dating... finding a "mature" girl who isnt old as dirt and ugly as sin is incredibly difficult.

How can a person that only exists with a set also be out of a set?

 

[Omarvelous 10+ year member]

You know he's talking about the "gangster" black person who slurs everything together.... Not being racist, there are the "gangster" white guys who do the same but usually try to hard and look even dumber.

So lemme get this straight, you play dumb when someone says something he doesnt like about a race so he will admit it and you can call him racist, yet agree with a guy who says:

Originally Posted by Omarvelous View Post
i don't particularly like the pale skin, the high pitched annoying voices, the air headedness that most of the white girls i've come across exhibit.

Hmmmm.....

And what exactly was he agreeing with?

The fact that i've stated what I disliked about the white girls i've come across, OR was it the fact that I stated that a lot of relationships are based on *** or trying something new???

hmmmm.....

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

See.... some1 like you!!! is why i have hope for these forums. VERY valid points...
And i can agree that maybe they "feel" more secure, because they "feel" that a black man is more inclined to fight rather then flight.... But i'm sure there are white guys that would fight as much or more then a black man would....

So yes, i can agree with this. Same reason why more women want "Strong" men as opposed to "scranny" men.

As far as the exclusive of like comment, i'd venture to guess the same reason why they sought after the first black man, whether ***, protection, difference, is the same reason they seek the next, and the other, and the other. I'd venture to guess, that most likely.... all those guys share some similarities....

Now if all those guys LOOK the same.... might be she's just physically attracted to black men.

Me, i'm in love with the meat on the bones women, a huge fan of big butts/thighs, wide hips, and fuller lips....That combination is MOST likely on a woman of color, BUT believe me, i'd give a white girl a shot that had those same qualities.

Kinda 4got my point... lol... but yea, it just might be what attracts her. Like why some people think bulldogs are cute..... and why i think the cane corso is a good looking dog.... lol weird interjection, but you get the point!

I think you are on to something in that a black man most posses most of the characteristics they seek in men, not because inherently because they are black. A red, orange, or purple man could easily replace (or reduce the value of) black men of being desirable if they also possesed those characteristics.

Being the wanna-be economist that I am; I am still perplexed by a certain issue:

1. There are much fewer free black men than free black women.

2. Let's say 10% of those black men choose white women.

It seems like black women would be in excess supply. Therefore, me being of mediocre attractivness, should be able to acquire a more attractive black women than white women. However, this is not the case.

What are all these black women doing? Ideally, most of the population would find mates. If/when I seek my economics degree, that will be my dissertation, no doubt.

 

[StealthKill 10+ year member]

My guess would be im implying that he agreed with what I quoted you on....but just a total guess.....

 

[jmanpc 5,000+ posts]

Black women need some lovin too.

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

Black women need some lovin too.

But where are they? Who is demanding the black women?

I can only conjecture that there a very few of high quality and most are junk.

 

[sundownz Pro Seller]

A chimp and silverback dont interbreed, now do they? lol.
I just feel that way, its not like I have anything against another race. Hell, I got 5 guys standing in my wedding, 3 white, 1 asian, and 1...well, I think he's mexican, lol. Some of my close friends of the female gender are hispanic and black. BUT...I'd never hook up long term with em. (those 1 nighters are nice tho)

That is quite possibly one of the weakest and least thought out arguments I have ever heard. No offense, since you don't appear to be racist in any other way.... so let me explain.

The genetic difference between a chimp and a silverback does not even allow them to produce offspring, as far as I know anyway... even if they could produce a hybrid it would likely be sterile, like a mule (horse / donkey). Humans of all races are genetically similar enough to produce fertile offspring... the total genetic difference between a white and a black person (or between any two races) is incredibly small.

"Subspecies are closely related by definition, and human races appear to be less genetically distant than the major phylogroups of many other species.[113] While FST values for neutral variation are by no means negligible from a population genetics point of view, it’s significant that the overwhelming majority of genetic variation is found within populations, reaffirming the importance of treating people as individuals. It’s also significant that the FST value for the most prominent racial trait - skin color - has been estimated to be about 0.60,[114] which means that the visible variation between races greatly exaggerates overall genetic differences."

http://www.goodrumj.com/RFaqHTML.html

* Fairly interesting read

I can't believe this argument still exists in modern times with all of the knowledge we have about genetics.

 

[Omarvelous 10+ year member]

My guess would be im implying that he agreed with what I quoted you on....but just a total guess.....

My GF is a Criminal Justice major, soon to be lawyer... So that's why I called you out on that... She tries to pull that on me allll the time! lol //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/naughty.gif.94359f346c0f1259df8038d60b41863e.gif

 

[StealthKill 10+ year member]

My GF is a Criminal Justice major, soon to be lawyer... So that's why I called you out on that... She tries to pull that on me allll the time! lol //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/naughty.gif.94359f346c0f1259df8038d60b41863e.gif

Well when she starts to pull in some money remember your buddy stealth!//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fro.gif.c695f1f814b01c4ad99fe7f8cccadd29.gif

 

[jmanpc 5,000+ posts]

But where are they? Who is demanding the black women?
I can only conjecture that there a very few of high quality and most are junk.

see your sig lol.

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

see your sig lol.

Now you know some of my personal feelings, it makes the sig more important.

 

[Omarvelous 10+ year member]

But where are they? Who is demanding the black women?
I can only conjecture that there a very few of high quality and most are junk.

Well that is all based on your definition of "high quality" and "junk".

Also.... i'd say your location may have a lot to do with the frequency of seeing either high quality anything compared to junk quality anything.

NYC..... you see everything on and off the scale. But then again, it's all back to preferences.

I see a girl with the body of paris hilton..... i wanna vomit. I see a J.Lo or a Bootz..... //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wow.gif.23d729408e9177caa2a0ed6a2ba6588e.gif

lol.

 

[jmanpc 5,000+ posts]

Well that is all based on your definition of "high quality" and "junk".
Also.... i'd say your location may have a lot to do with the frequency of seeing either high quality anything compared to junk quality anything.

NYC..... you see everything on and off the scale. But then again, it's all back to preferences.

I see a girl with the body of paris hilton..... i wanna vomit. I see a J.Lo or a Bootz..... //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wow.gif.23d729408e9177caa2a0ed6a2ba6588e.gif

lol.

i'd say 7/10 black chicks i know are loud, obnoxious, rude, annoying, trashy or hateful.

 

[StealthKill 10+ year member]

Also.... i'd say your location may have a lot to do with the frequency of seeing either high quality anything compared to junk quality anything.

Where I live there are about 4 black girls and I can't understand a single one of em. Most have kids and such allready and imo a kid is a no-no.