hahahaha. opinion? Opinion that a giraffe and a monkey are the same species? That opinion?my OPINION has been stated, you may now argue amongst yourselves.
The defense of your opinion is horseshit.my OPINION has been stated, you may now argue amongst yourselves.
Im not big into interracial relationships because of differences in cultures, sometimes extreme differences.
...that and I cant stand when I cant even understand what the other is saying because their english is so poor despite being born and raised in america.
You know what I mean.
I agree with you. I believe phantom tried to relate white girls dating black guys to spending money. I disagree, most of the black guys i have been around that had white chicks (or friends with benefits) was strickly because of the benefits. The girls were actually spending more money on the guys. The girls was waiting till their boring b/f or husband left for work and brought the guys over to have *** in the hot tub or what not. I cant see how phantom could relate that to spending money. Yes chicks do like to spend money, but hell everyone does.LOL @ this Thread....
Man.... ignorance is BLISS!! I'm just gonna take it for what it is, everyone has their opinions, and I can respect that. You wanna be a racist? Be a racist! But atleast try to sound logical in your reasonings/explanations....AND atleast admit your racist! Why hide it?
And it's funny how the ppl with the dumbest sh!t to say/most fed up logic are "MOSTLY" from rural towns.... So ofcourse seeing an interracial couple is more of a shock/once in a blue thing for you.
phantom240...... do you read what you write? **** your logic is Fed up!! ... again "KILL Yourself!"
Me.... i don't particularly like the pale skin, the high pitched annoying voices, the air headedness that most of the white girls i've come across exhibit. I'll tell you one reason why they do come to the "dark" side, and in all of my cases, it's all about ***/pleasure, which is a big part of life, for 99% of the population atleast. These ladies come to find out if the rumor is true, so what am i to do?
I'll tell you another reason..... it's something different. This is not only racially driven, but culturally too. Sh!t, that's the reason we have so many ****'s now, something different. I on the other hand, perfectly happy with women, so more for me.
I personally prefer to date within the minority pool, tend to date other's who can understand and blend in with my culture alot more fluidly. Now, fcking is another story.... because the vaginal cavity is all the same. I know of only 1 white girl i'd date, and that is because she's grown in the same environment, and i don't have to worry about her sayin ignorant shit like "Do all you black ppl eat chicken and drink beer?" or sh!t like that because she has a broader perspective on life growing up in a large city, around most blacks.
I was gonna mention that too..I agree with you. I believe phantom tried to relate white girls dating black guys to spending money. I disagree, most of the black guys i have been around that had white chicks (or friends with benefits) was strickly because of the benefits. The girls were actually spending more money on the guys. The girls was waiting till their boring b/f or husband left for work and brought the guys over to have *** in the hot tub or what not. I cant see how phantom could relate that to spending money. Yes chicks do like to spend money, but hell everyone does.
Well it seems as though you dont get out often. Go have a conversation with your average black person, aged between 18-28. Then come back, and tell me what percentage, without having to resort to process of elimination, you could understand.How does not understanding what a person is saying have to do with race?
You know he's talking about the "gangster" black person who slurs everything together....How does not understanding what a person is saying have to do with race?
Hmmmm.....i don't particularly like the pale skin, the high pitched annoying voices, the air headedness that most of the white girls i've come across exhibit.
Actually, there is more to the story than that.Me.... i don't particularly like the pale skin, the high pitched annoying voices, the air headedness that most of the white girls i've come across exhibit. I'll tell you one reason why they do come to the "dark" side, and in all of my cases, it's all about ***/pleasure, which is a big part of life, for 99% of the population atleast. These ladies come to find out if the rumor is true, so what am i to do?
Nice. Yeah, I think that sums it up. Unfortunately, in the age group which I'm a part of and dating... finding a "mature" girl who isnt old as dirt and ugly as sin is incredibly difficult.Actually, there is more to the story than that.
I, too, was curious about the desire for white girls to date black men. I am talking about the white girls who exclusively date black men. To be exclusive of others is logical (fear of the unknown, racism, etc) but to be exclusive of "like" doesn't make much sense.
I asked many girls and it boiled down to this: physical security. Public perception is that black males are typically more agressive that white males. The girls feel a black male is more likely to fight for them (and conversely fight with them [which they perceive as attention]).
One of them brought up an interesting point. If you were in the mall with your girlfriend and someone grabbed their purse. What would you do? I know on the internet everyone is John Wayne. But I was honest. I told her I would do nothing. I would call and cancel the credit cards and other than that, I would do nothing.
The reason is that I would analyze the risk of getting beat up/injured/killed/I beat them up and get arrested/sued etc vs. the reward of retrieving the items. In mu opinion, it is far easier to replace the missing goods than to take that risk.
The girls percieve a black man on the other hand to attempt to retrieve the purse. They would do it without this analysis. This makes them feel safe. Safe that no one will bother them, and if they do their man will save the day.
I do not provide that level of security. I then queried, what about financial security? I will always make more than a typical black male, therefore, I can provide a level of security he cannot. Does that account for something?
The answer was yes, but.
It also reinforces Maslow's Hiearchy of Needs in a different kind of way.
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If you talk to girls of somewhat maturity, you will find this to be true also.
However, you are correct in that a percentage do it for ***, rebellion, experiment, etc.