Love?????????

[AllStar1500bd 5,000+ posts]

If a girl just breaks up with a long-term boyfriend for you (ex: 2 years), don't go after her expecting a relationship because 99/100 times she will go back to her ex-bf.

 

[Prowler573 5,000+ posts]

1500+, huh?

Add 8000 miles to that and then we'll talk. A few tanks of gas would get you there and back again. Outside of a plane or a boat I'm not getting to where my wife is from here.

I wish you all the luck in the world, though. I'll assume that this is a chick you "met" online? The odds are against it working out as there are simply too many variables that you have no control over. Having said that ~ it CAN work. Those cases that end up working out are the exception rather than the rule but they do exist.

 

[SyKo13 5,000+ posts]

If a girl just breaks up with a long-term boyfriend for you (ex: 2 years), don't go after her expecting a relationship because 99/100 times she will go back to her ex-bf.

Her X, chose drugs over her............

1500+, huh?Add 8000 miles to that and then we'll talk. A few tanks of gas would get you there and back again. Outside of a plane or a boat I'm not getting to where my wife is from here.

I wish you all the luck in the world, though. I'll assume that this is a chick you "met" online? The odds are against it working out as there are simply too many variables that you have no control over. Having said that ~ it CAN work. Those cases that end up working out are the exception rather than the rule but they do exist.

I shouldn't be complaing about distance....She's a great friend of both my sisters, they introduced me to her //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif, one of my sister's lives in the same city where she's at //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif, I NEED A JOB!!!!! //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/furious.gif.fc81ca146dbff91fede3ed290dbc4f4c.gif

 

[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

1500+, huh?Add 8000 miles to that and then we'll talk. A few tanks of gas would get you there and back again. Outside of a plane or a boat I'm not getting to where my wife is from here.

I wish you all the luck in the world, though. I'll assume that this is a chick you "met" online? The odds are against it working out as there are simply too many variables that you have no control over. Having said that ~ it CAN work. Those cases that end up working out are the exception rather than the rule but they do exist.

that is correct. me and my g/f of almost 2yrs now met online. its rare that those work out tho. and just to let you know syko prowlers woman is an aussie he's stuck here in the states.

 

[SyKo13 5,000+ posts]

Yea man, I been aware of that since I known him (THE Thread FTW!)

 

[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

45 mins and i get to see mine. sorry guys.

 

[Prowler573 5,000+ posts]

I think it's a pretty well-known fact that my wife is in Australia at this stage, Mike, but thanks for the clarification anyway. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

SyKo, just be genuine with what you're doing is the best advice I can give you. If it is meant to be then it will be. If not? Well, that's pretty self-explanatory.

Truth be told at the outset of our friendship before it developed into considerably more my wife handed down explicit instructions that we would never be more than friends as the logistics of carrying on a committed relationship from across the planet are simply mind-numbing.

Look at us now...

 

[regal8r 5,000+ posts]

I think it's a pretty well-known fact that my wife is in Australia at this stage, Mike, but thanks for the clarification anyway. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif


SyKo, just be genuine with what you're doing is the best advice I can give you. If it is meant to be then it will be. If not? Well, that's pretty self-explanatory.

Truth be told at the outset of our friendship before it developed into considerably more my wife handed down explicit instructions that we would never be more than friends as the logistics of carrying on a committed relationship from across the planet are simply mind-numbing.

 

Look at us now...

so in other words, ur wife told u that u would/could only be friends??

 

[Prowler573 5,000+ posts]

so in other words, ur wife told u that u would/could only be friends??

In the beginning, yes.

The day I dropped the bombshell on her that I had fallen in love with her (which scared the hell out of me at first since at that point we hadn't met in person) she had to take a few days to reflect on what I had just told her.

I didn't hear from her for three days while she composed herself enough to respond...longest 72 hours of my life.

 

[SyKo13 5,000+ posts]

I think it's a pretty well-known fact that my wife is in Australia at this stage, Mike, but thanks for the clarification anyway. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif


SyKo, just be genuine with what you're doing is the best advice I can give you. If it is meant to be then it will be. If not? Well, that's pretty self-explanatory.

Truth be told at the outset of our friendship before it developed into considerably more my wife handed down explicit instructions that we would never be more than friends as the logistics of carrying on a committed relationship from across the planet are simply mind-numbing.

Look at us now...

Man, you are the shit lol, world needs more of you (especially the government).

I just hope I don't get traded for another dude again.....I know I won't fukk upp, because trust me, when I get into a relationship, I don't talk/look at other girls, I give up a lot just to talk to the one I'm with.

Also, DAM U MIKE!!!!!!!//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/furious.gif.fc81ca146dbff91fede3ed290dbc4f4c.gif:furious, you just had to say that huh!?!?! lawl jk //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif:cuddle:

 

[regal8r 5,000+ posts]

In the beginning, yes.
The day I dropped the bombshell on her that I had fallen in love with her (which scared the hell out of me at first since at that point we hadn't met in person) she had to take a few days to reflect on what I had just told her.

I didn't hear from her for three days while she composed herself enough to respond...longest 72 hours of my life.

and what did she say after that 72 hours??

 

[cpierce 5,000+ posts]

What is it???????????????What's LOVE??????????

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It is when the chick in your avatar will have crazy *** with you any time of the day and then fix you something to eat and then leave...that my friend is love

 

[SyKo13 5,000+ posts]

In the beginning, yes.
The day I dropped the bombshell on her that I had fallen in love with her (which scared the hell out of me at first since at that point we hadn't met in person) she had to take a few days to reflect on what I had just told her.

I didn't hear from her for three days while she composed herself enough to respond...longest 72 hours of my life.

Ah.............The great waiting game........lol............Fun.......

 

[Prowler573 5,000+ posts]

and what did she say after that 72 hours??

In a nutshell that the feelings I had divulged to her were reciprocated in kind and that we needed badly to have some time together in the same place to see for certain if it would work out in the longterm. What you know about a person you met online (when the only experience you actually have of that person is online/on the phone ~ I ought to buy stock in Bellsouth...) can potentially be very, very different once you are in the same physical location. Thankfully in my case being together in real life was only different to the extent that it was so much better...

My first trip to Australia in 2001 I asked her to be my wife after being there less than two weeks.

Best Christmas present I have ever had was her telling me, "Yes, I will."

 

[SyKo13 5,000+ posts]

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