Is there anyway to find out if a baby's mine before it comes out?

[reneeb7363 10+ year member]

take your right hand and make a fist....now point your index finger straight up and stick your thumb out. Install on your forhead... there ya go!

isnt that better? LOL!

 

[bigbangtheory 5,000+ posts]

^^^^Wow, good one.

Anyway what I dont get is why would you pay all that money for her to have it done when you didnt want her too. She wanted it aborted which means she should have paid for it, period. Why waste your money when you wanted it?

 

[marleyskater420 5,000+ posts]

"Women using abortions as a form of birth control"

-Cunning Lynguists

 

[ballstothewall 10+ year member]

You cant always do that....what if she has an *** baby
*** baby

When a couple is having anal ***, and sperm drips from the anal cavity to the ******, impregnating the woman.

The ejaculate from John's then empty testicles dripped from Denise's anal cavity to her vaginal mound, thus impregnating her. She then gave birth to her beautiful *** baby, Clifton.

I found that funny, Clifton is the name of my home town.

 

[OldManTod 10+ year member]

Why is it so expensive? There are counties here in TN where people barley gross that each month. How would the expect you to pay if you didn't have the money, as in you had a low wage job?
Also, do they consider if you have another child by a different woman?

Each state has different "obligation charts", if I had a low wage job, the total number wouldnt be as high. My obligation is based upon a combined income of 130k (between both of us), if combined income were half that, the support obligation would be half that.

They do in fact consider other children, I have been married for years and have three other children and they did take that into consideration as part of the calculation (as well as health care, which I cover and babysitting costs from when he was young).

They haven't done an administrative review in probably like 7 years, so I am lucky in one sense (my income is much higher now than it was when they originally calculated), however he is over 14 now, so they probably wouldn't accept that she has to pay for babysitting.

As far as the "southern baptist liberal" comment, you are retarded and have no clue what you are talking about... Liberals find abortion a perfectly acceptable form of birth control you knob...

- T

 

[nVRuckus 5,000+ posts]

"southern baptist liberal"

is there such a thing? I thought southern baptists were conservatives

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

As far as the "southern baptist liberal" comment, you are retarded and have no clue what you are talking about... Liberals find abortion a perfectly acceptable form of birth control you knob...

- T

I assume this isn't referring to me.

 

[nVRuckus 5,000+ posts]

dont assume LOL

 

[OldManTod 10+ year member]

I assume this isn't referring to me.

No snoopdan...

- T

 

[nVRuckus 5,000+ posts]

lol the quote button > j00

 

[Phrozt 10+ year member]

Holy shit. I left last night and this thread was on page 3 and now its on page 9..

Heres the update.

I took her this morning and we got it done. When I dropped her off I told her that our friendship is over so I won't have to deal with her anymore. I am 90% sure its mine because I did bust in her one night when I was drunk so... its my fault anyways.

She agreed to repay me half of it when she gets the cash..which is rare so whether i get repaid or not im just glad its offf my chest now.

I would read through the posts but I only had 30 mins of sleep last night and I just got out of class and im tired as hell.

Even though I'm pro-choice, that still kinda sucks that it had to happen..

Good thing it's over now... and more than likely a very good choice that you told her your friendship was over after it was done...

 

[Phrozt 10+ year member]

renee... don't be a stupid unrealistic ****... shit happens.. and you have to take care of it however the situation deems necessary. The fact that he actually provided the means, even when he was against it speaks volumes about his character...

And I didn't read the part about after the period when I made my previous reply. There's really no way to get her preggo at the end of her period UNLESS the egg still has not come out (i.e., she's still bleeding). After bleeding stops, the egg is out, and a new one has not yet descended from the fallopian tubes.

You're actually safe for about a week. Why? Because the egg is only descended from the tubes for about 2 days (ovulation) after around the 14th day of her new cycle (2 weeks after the period). If not fertilized, the egg will most likely be re-absorbed into the body. Even then, until the period ends, there is still the chance for fertilization if the egg has not been absorbed into the body, and has yet been removed.

There is also a chance for about a week before this process takes place to get her pregnant. Sperm can live for 5-7 days, so theorhetically, you can bust one in her a week before, some of the little guys can live, and then fertilize the egg when it pops out. It is also (very remotely) possible that one of those little guys can swim all the way up the tubes and nab it.

However, for about a week right after the period, there should be no chance of fertilization. The egg isn't even formed yet, and won't be for 2 weeks.

 

[nVRuckus 5,000+ posts]

Im pro choice myself, but talk my wife out of an abortion when we were dating //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif Daughter is 8 now and I dont regret it one bit, but Im also still with my wife and was older and more responsible at the time //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif I say scrape it and be done with it.

 

[Phrozt 10+ year member]

It's good that you're still w/your wife. My chick and I are going through some tough times because she's got a 7 yr old son, and she's going through a divorce. The dood is a complete PoS (the father) and she was already leaving him way back when, then 3 weeks later she found out she was preggo... tried to make things work... he got into drugs.. she still tried... then she got her son out of that situation.

Now, it's hard for her, because she loves her son, but it's hard to find people that want to take up a 7 yr old son as a part of dating/being with her.

 

[nVRuckus 5,000+ posts]

I dont think its that hard. Most guys I know dont care if the chick has a kid or not. I think its more about you dont want the kid meeting all these people that may or may not work out.