Help me make a cd!!

[speedyo 10+ year member]

any more tonight??

 

[speedyo 10+ year member]

i want UNDERGROUND LOL!!!! something i have not heard before lol or some real good remixes

 

[electropro 10+ year member]

JIMMY HENDRIX...Watchtower

old, but still badass:smokin://content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smokin.gif.f1dc8d2acb1809e863ebd6a47eaa0d45.gif:

 

[speedyo 10+ year member]

lol one word love.... ill send love to u for that one great one

 

[speedyo 10+ year member]

LISTEN PLZZ...

i have been typin on this thread for a whiel and i have got one questin....

what would u do...

this girl i have known for awile we ended up having a 1 night stand then... then she told me she was pregnant... im 19 and i dont want a kid... she told me as soon as she figured out ok..... heres the messed up part.... i told her to give me somet ime to come around a week or two to figure things out... then my old roomate which was a girl took her out to my parents hosue and they told them... or so i thought i had just got off work and laid down at my apartment an dpassed out... it was like a day after she told me... so i get this phone call from her and answer it and was like hey what up... she was like well im out at your parent with ..... and i was like you better get her out of my parents house now im coming out there and if your still there she is gonna have it..... just saying i am 19 and was one of the most popular kids in my school so i never had no one over to my house... i did not trust no one... i found that as disrespect... so i told them i was comin left and when i was almost here i seen them pass me on the outer road and flip me off.... now i have recieved countless ims while i was at work and emails and myspace comments and messages telling me i am a dad and all that... and it has ruined my reputation... my mother told me she will not let me have nothing to do with the kid until a dna test is done... i have went behind her back and talked to her and all that cuz i dont wanna be a bad dad.. but still waht if it aint mine... i told her i want a blood test done..... and i would not be nothing till it was proven... and everyone is saying i am a lowlife and all that... i was not married to her there was no trust how do i no she did not go out and.... ya with someone else.... plz tell me what u thinkg

 

[DejaWiz 5,000+ posts]

DNA test. Doesn't matter what everyone else things about it... just get it done. If you're not the dad, then all the people badmouthing you will do a 180 and say "good for you! you were smart to do that!". If you are the dad, then at least you have the proof and can step up and do what's right.

 

[speedyo 10+ year member]

i really appreciate it man... im like flipping out inside talking to her but keeping my kool.... i dont wanna be with her but i wanna have something to do with my baby without her taking me fore everything i got... im trying to better my life right now (in college for computer prog... web page design...) and working... i told her i want to be down ther eveyr weekend but cant gurantee it...

 

[DejaWiz 5,000+ posts]

no problem man. Getting a DNA test done is no insult or disrespect to the woman, so don't let anyone try and convince you it is. Afterall... how can either of you be sure without it? If she wants to show you any respect and decency, she'll allow it.

 

[speedyo 10+ year member]

she told me she would... but i also told her with college and work i will prolly only get to see him every week or every other week and she said thats all she wants is me to see him that she will not get me for child support and blah blah... i will pay but still i just wanna make it trhough college first

 

[DejaWiz 5,000+ posts]

that's cool she's going to let it be done. i can imagine juggling fatherhood, college, a job, etc etc etc can be a tough. Heck, I'm married, we have a rottweiler, both work full time, and it can still be tough at times lol. Discussing trying to have our first kid sometime next year.

 

[speedyo 10+ year member]

and she just asked weither she should name it after her last name or mine and i said hers... and she was like why i was like for personal reasons.... reason is im the last male with my last name to passs it on and i dont think it should be done like this... am i gettin a fat head or waht...

 

[DejaWiz 5,000+ posts]

nah, your reasons are for you and she should respect them.

 

[speedyo 10+ year member]

i just dont no man its killing me... ppl are saying just ignore it she is a hoe and all that... thing is she aint i no she hasnt slept with more then prolly one more person other then me

 

[DejaWiz 5,000+ posts]

it's a sensitive situation, so people are going to say outrageous things. happens in a lot of situations, you know?

 

[speedyo 10+ year member]

ya i know but bad thing is ill mouth like you know ya it prolly aint mine.... but then when someone mouths her i am like she aint a ***** she just aint like that... i contradict myself.... but a dna will have to be done before i accept anything i just cant do it without a dna..