Final news: as per case rep the car is totaled. It would cost them 6800 to fix it and the value of that car was 9600. Since that dumba$$ BF had no insurance, they will cut me a check minus deductible. And since I had that uninsured motorist coverage , at least 3/4 of deductible should be recovered. For another 1/4 I'll go to small claims court.
Today after work will go to towing place to get all my stereo stuff since they did not pay for it.