Girl I'm dating tells me....

[Andrew12 10+ year member]

Restraining order will do nothing //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

The only difference between having a restraining order and not will be the simple fact that he can't contact her before he kills her. If he wants to kill her, a piece of paper isn't going to stop him.

You're better off letting it play out and not doing anything, maybe a little bit of talking with her but... There's at least a 50% chance it's her fault he acts like that! Could be you next.

 

[Rmsanger 10+ year member]

dump her and find another chick without the baggage. The cooch ain't worth getting killed over.

 

[bdawson72 5,000+ posts]

dump her and find another chick without the baggage. The cooch ain't worth getting killed over.

This is a very true statement.

 

[85Caprice4d 10+ year member]

go talk to the ****er - maybe your in over your head?

guys generally make more sense than crazy bishes

 

[spl guru 10+ year member]

You should **** him. He' be really confused then

 

[tsenfw 10+ year member]

A restraining order is always good. It gives you a police record that he's acting all crazy and violent. Helps later if you kick his ***, can just say it was self defense.

bdawson gives good advice //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

 

[85Caprice4d 10+ year member]

still think the chick is nutzo edit: she is with you afterall

find a new girl - call deer hunt i hear he knows a few you might like

if your into ******'s//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

 

[crunktimes.com 5,000+ posts]

She probably can't get a restraining order unless he tells her in person that he is going to kill her, over the phone usually is not enough evidence to produce one sadly but true.

99.9% of the time people like this are just morons and just getting a little emo over the breakup.

I personally would go talk to him face to face, shows you have some sack and aren't a telephone ninja, I would not go looking for a fight though just go to try and put him in check. If he hits you then fight but it usually does not solve anything, you can usually intimidate people who are weak without having to kick thier ***, if he is getting this emotional over a chick who he is no longer with chances are good he is weak.

If it is just some some chick you have been banging a week or two you may even want to consider dropping her as someone else suggested.

 

[lilmaniac2 5,000+ posts]

maybe the g/f is exaggerating/lying. Its been my experience that women lie and blow things way out of proportion.

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

Yeah I already told her to get a restraining order. Supposedly he does nothing but say shit to her all the time, and personally, I wouldn't stand for that.

yeah thats always the story on the news "he always just made threats, i never thought hed actually do it" should probably get the cops involved.

 

[Johnny Drama 5,000+ posts]

Restraining order. Then when he comes to kill the bitch, slit his throat.

 

[Injected54 10+ year member]

1) File a police report, she has a death threat from her ex. Tell them she is scared for her life and he is crazy, that is the reason she left him. They may or might not be able to do anything at this point. The reason for filing reports every time he threatens her or harasses her is there is a report filed at the police station. Which helps you build up your case against him.

2) Get a restraining order so if he does talk alot but doesn't go through with it, she can still press charges if he comes around. If he comes around looking for trouble and you have the restraining order, it's in writing that he knew to stay away, but ignored the restraining order. This makes him look like he came looking for trouble or is following up on his death threats. If he comes around and something happens with the order in effect he looks like the guilty one, you were just defending yourself. Furthermore helping your case and also making you and your girlfriend look good.

3) Get a recording device for the phone, so when he calls and talks shit, or threatens her life again she can report it. One persons word over another can go wrong sometimes. But if you have the recordings of him harassing her, and threatening her life, that's hard evidence against him.

All this simple stuff adds up against him. If something does happen between you and him all this stuff makes him look more guilty. Especially if someone gets hurt, it's easier for a self defense case if it gets that far. ( He came looking for trouble, he broke the protection order, you have the filed police reports, and the recordings of him threatening her life). He made death threats against her and he is crazy , you were scared for her life and yours.

Remember the more evidence you have against this guy the better.

 

[Captain_Ahab 5,000+ posts]

Going to be bad when he really does kill her, and 95 too for trying to talk to the dude face to face.

 

[njaykaplan 10+ year member]

You should **** him. He' be really confused then

I loled..

This is coming from a person that used to always be in trouble and with the wrong people.. I stay out of trouble now, so this is my opinion since i'm completely different about my life now. Hand it over to the people that will enjoy taking care of him, having a chat with him, and if he wants to act like he has a problem, they can help him change his mind. Police are useless, at least where i'm from. I believe in whatever works.

maybe the g/f is exaggerating/lying. Its been my experience that women lie and blow things way out of proportion.

Thanks chad.. I always had high hopes that this was only Florida women.. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/tongue.gif.6130eb82179565f6db8d26d6001dcd24.gif

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

maybe the g/f is exaggerating/lying. Its been my experience that women lie and blow things way out of proportion.

Yep, some also get a kick out of making the current boyfriend jump at her command. It really is a windfall -- they get to play the new guy like a puppet while keeping the drama whith th old.

Be cautious. And careful too.