ever think about *******?

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

This is an interesting thread. I know someone close to me who may be thinking about ******* but I don't know what to say to her. She has never ever been the type to do such a thing, but some recent events seemed to have pushed her off the cliff.

 

[wesl56 10+ year member]

This is an interesting thread. I know someone close to me who may be thinking about ******* but I don't know what to say to her. She has never ever been the type to do such a thing, but some recent events seemed to have pushed her off the cliff.

just talk to her... about anything... usually thats all someone needs

 

[jmanpc 5,000+ posts]

Man I have been there, done that. So many times where everything is looming over me, challenging me, staring at me, laughing at me. I don't feel like there's a way out. But like I always tell everyone who has talked to me about this kind of thing... just go one step at a time. Don't overload yourself. Things may seem to be towering over you, but you have to climb them hand over hand. Don't hurry. Take your time. Slowly but surely, you will emerge on top. The second thing I say is "Never tire of doing the right thing." Dropping bad habits, bad people, bad drugs, and the like will only help.

 

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

just talk to her... about anything... usually thats all someone needs

I did but I haven't come out and asked are you thinking of killing yourself. I mean what if she wasn't really thinking that?

 

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

I've also found that being a jackass really helps. I've learned to trust no one, because if you put your trust in someone, they will only let you down. You got to find out what makes you happy and do that, and look out for #1 and trust no one. There is only 1 person I trust, and that person is possibly contemplating ******* //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif

 

[bibby 5,000+ posts]

I've thought about it, but lets be real, i dont have the balls to commit suicde.

As a side note, i am really good at shrugging shit off. Not much gets my panties in a bunch.

 

[Odd-io 10+ year member]

I've also found that being a jackass really helps. I've learned to trust no one, because if you put your trust in someone, they will only let you down. You got to find out what makes you happy and do that, and look out for #1 and trust no one. There is only 1 person I trust, and that person is possibly contemplating ******* //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif

I wouldn't let that person be alone for a second. My best friend made ONE out of character comment but had no other signs that something may happen. I was around him a lot, but I guess not enough.

About a week later he was gone.

 

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

I wouldn't let that person be alone for a second. My best friend made ONE out of character comment but had no other signs that something may happen. I was around him a lot, but I guess not enough.
About a week later he was gone.

Problem is, she lives 2 hours away

 

[Eugenics 5,000+ posts]

What is it about marriage or your marriage that has made life so rough?

 

[Odd-io 10+ year member]

Problem is, she lives 2 hours away

****, that's a big problem. I pray that it doesn't end the way for you that it did for me. Do all you can.

 

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

What is it about marriage or your marriage that has made life so rough?

Are you talking to me? //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/confused.gif.e820e0216602db4765798ac39d28caa9.gif

 

[Eugenics 5,000+ posts]

Anybody, im curious.

 

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

Anybody, im curious.

When I mentioned not trusting anybody, that would apply to females so marriage is not an option for me.

 

[bball09124 10+ year member]

this may sound stupid but i think about fight club. just read some of those lines.

http://www.quotegarden.com/bk-fc.html

and another thing. i used to comtemplate it, but then i saw something on tv. it said that every single person who ever jumped off the golden gate bridge and lived were greatful to be alive and greatful that they didnt suceed to in killing themselves.

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

I think about it several times a day.

It's a strange justopostiton in that I consider myself a failure whereas others think I am successful. My friends and family think I should be grateful for the blessings I received, but I consistantly feel that I have failed.

I cannot simultaneoulsy live the "free" life and the "wealthy" life. I don't want to turn to drugs, as I don't like crutches. If I knew that if I killed myself, I would get a second chance to try again, I would do so. However, I don't think there is a "reset" button, where you get to try again and avoid past transgressions.

You only get to suffer, crash, retry, and suffer again.