ever been cheated on?

[IshbOO 10+ year member]

highschool is bullshit i guess, everyone tells me to leave her and never talk to her. guess that **** is gone.

 

[Heresy 10+ year member]

Been cheated on once in a 2.5 year relationship then she married the guy a year later. That was a fun one to rememeber.

Then there is the relationship I am in now that is just so messed up to the outside world that I will refrain from going into any details.//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/tongue.gif.6130eb82179565f6db8d26d6001dcd24.gif

 

[IshbOO 10+ year member]

my dad got cheated on after a 20 yr marrige... i feel bad for him, but hes lucky he makes $120,000+ a year and smokes that dank kind bud, and owns his own house and shit.

 

[john#21 10+ year member]

Ditch her. She'll do it again. Hit it from all sides until you do.

Sorry to hear that dude, that isht sux.

 

[traksta15 10+ year member]

just got cheated on like a month ago by my gf of 1.5 years and best friend of like 3 years, she kissed some guy in his pool (one of my friends) so we broke up and then they ended up doin it while we were broken up, so we meet up one night go out on a "date" and end up doin it.............it was very good.........now were seperated again and we've both moved on.......it can only get better so just look at it like that, but you ALWAYS find someone else and you usually find her where u least expect it.............

 

[Phatillusion 5,000+ posts]

lol just act like its no big deal works the best and forget about her you can play games but why waste the effort? if she was worth keepin she wouldnt have cheated. the fact that you show you dont care but act "nice" should let her know she is a ho and you thought as much from the go.

Best advice right there. Trust me, let her know it doesn't even phase you, tell her things aren't working out, and that you're going to go your separate ways. She'll be completely stunned, she'll try to get back with you, don't give in.

 

[bigbangtheory 5,000+ posts]

I was in a 5 year relationship and near the end she started cheating on me not with just one guy but with two. One of them I knew very well and considered him a friend. But he forgot to tell her about him having herpies. Now my dumb *** ex bitc h of girlfriend has it too. I always say they will get what is coming to them 10fold. I laugh everytime she calls me up and trys to get me into bed. I am like why dont you call up the one guy you cheated on me. I am sure you will fuc your stank herpie ***.

Just move on man. You are young and I am sure you can do better than her anyway. Dont show any emotion to her and she will be in the corner crying like a little baby wishing she had you back. Good luck!

 

[slipitysmooth 10+ year member]

The girl will prolly crawl back like the miserable scum she is...happened to me after a year and a half...luckily i had already found someone else so it was much easier to tell her to **** off.

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

Use her as a fu.ck buddy from now on. Thats what I did. Also the acting not even phased works. Especially if you really arent phased //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif. Dont worry about it all man. Have you thought about what you are going to do? How did you catch her and what was she doing?

 

[audiolife 5,000+ posts]

i wouldnt press the issue u act concerned she then thinks/knows she got ya

 

[civic2004 10+ year member]

Ive been cheated on with a girl i was with for 2 years. And after that it just wasn't the same. I can't trust a girl tahts gonna do that. But i do hope things work out for ya. But like you have heard before if you really love her its up to you. If you think you can trust her and think that she's not gonna do that again then go for it. But if you honestly think she ain't gonna change then.........you know

 

[jimmclrk1 10+ year member]

Take her back, and make her engage in a little backdoor action. Make sure you use your phone to get some pictures. Then dump her and then e-mail her the pictures you took. That'll teach her to **** herself out.

 

[Phatillusion 5,000+ posts]

i wouldnt press the issue u act concerned she then thinks/knows she got ya

Ain't that the truth. Cuz if you act concerned she knows she's got the upper hand in the relationship. In order for things to swing in your direction and for you to get the upper hand, you need to act like it doesn't bother you. Just tell her you been thinking and that things aren't working out, you wish her the best, but you have to do what's best for yourself. I can guarantee you'll come out of this smelling like a rose. She'll want you back, but don't go back to her. There's plenty of fish in the sea, and if you get the chance, **** one of her friends, that'll really put hte exclamation point on the whole thing.

 

[Eugenics 5,000+ posts]

**** one of her friends, that'll really put hte exclamation point on the whole thing.

couldn't agree more, it works... trust me