**** man that really *****. My suggestion would be stay close friends with her, becuase it could just be that her parents are putting ideas in her head. Take things one day at a time don't put pressure on her but don't try to make her jealous, I have seen that before and i have yet to see it work. If you ever need to talk you can add me on aim: thekorn555 or seeing as how I live kinda close to you maybe we could meet or something. My girlfriend is actually moving in with me tommorow. I met her over the net actually shes from ohio im from new york(long long story) things clicked and here we are a couple years later. Well i guess my point is love finds you, you don't find love. Sorry for both of your loses and I wish you the best of luck in the future.