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[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

In other news, I decided I cannot be friends with my ex. I can't handle to hear who she is sleeping with or what she is doing. I am not going to call her until she can tell me whatever without me getting emotional about it.

//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/clap.gif.178cba2c538c68e720c727fcb024b19c.gif better stick to it

 

[2kchevy06civic 5,000+ posts]

It's obvious he doesn't want to talk to you right now. No use in trying to "chase" him. Just let it go. Hopefully, there will be a reason why you two can be friends again.

**** I had a big message I was gonna send to him too. You wanna read it at least? //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif

In other news, I decided I cannot be friends with my ex. I can't handle to hear who she is sleeping with or what she is doing. I am not going to call her until she can tell me whatever without me getting emotional about it.

yep, exact same thing I went through. It'll get better man. I know that I just used to read shit like that all the time and be like, "**** no it won't." but it really does. It just took me months to get over it. The best thing you can do though is let it go because talking really only keeps the feelings alive.

:werd:

this is good practice for you 2k, practice letting go of relationships.

let it go.

you wanna read what i wrote? I mean really I don't expect him to forgive me, I'm just doing it to at least put it out on the table that words have been spoken.

 

[Eugenics 5,000+ posts]

if he deleted you because he knows, yes i would say something. if not, i would just go on with my life.

 

[81elocd]

flip = not a ***

 

[2kchevy06civic 5,000+ posts]

if he deleted you because he knows, yes i would say something. if not, i would just go on with my life.

yes he does know.

x2 I know if I was in his shoes I would not want you to talk to me. I don't think you did anything to warrant being cut off personally but its not anyone but his decision.
Sadly I have lost a lot of freinds over chicks, never for banging someones GF or ex but trying to look out for freinds only to be cut of because they assuming I was jealous or 'hating' when in reality all I was doing was looking out for them.

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It's one of the biggest mistakes I've made with a friend. and not just any friend but a pretty decent one. He and I just kind of lost touch a lot this year and we haven't been as good of friends like before. But he used to be my best friend and I viewed his chick just like one of the guys. I don't know what came over me but I guess we just clicked that one night because she and I were both talking about our relationship problems. It just happened and I wish I could take it back but i can't.

I guess since most of you have said i shouldn't say something I guess i won't but I still feel like I should. I dunno

 

[2kchevy06civic 5,000+ posts]

We talked last night about it...I don't know if I was being feggish or whatever, but there is still an emotional connection with her. I can't be a bystander while she lives her life with that connection in tact....so the only way I can make it work is not talk to her at all...and if I ever get to the point to where I can have "objective" *** without the emotional componet, we can have that type of relationship. Currently, I can't.
I feel better about admitting to myself that I still care...but I thought, well I could pretend that I didn't and still be her friend, but everytime she told me about messing around with other guys and stuff it would hurt me. So, in effect, I'd rather not know until I can know without getting upset...and that requires no communication. Even if that makes me a ***.

maybe that's why my ex gets upset whenever I talk about hooking up with different girls. I see now.

but good for you man, I'm glad you are making a stand. I always used to text people from the forums when I was about to call or text jennifer and they would always help me. Perhaps you should do the same.

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

**** I had a big message I was gonna send to him too. You wanna read it at least? //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif


yep, exact same thing I went through. It'll get better man. I know that I just used to read shit like that all the time and be like, "**** no it won't." but it really does. It just took me months to get over it. The best thing you can do though is let it go because talking really only keeps the feelings alive.

you wanna read what i wrote? I mean really I don't expect him to forgive me, I'm just doing it to at least put it out on the table that words have been spoken.

nope, dont wanna read it.

We talked last night about it...I don't know if I was being feggish or whatever, but there is still an emotional connection with her. I can't be a bystander while she lives her life with that connection in tact....so the only way I can make it work is not talk to her at all...and if I ever get to the point to where I can have "objective" *** without the emotional componet, we can have that type of relationship. Currently, I can't.
I feel better about admitting to myself that I still care...but I thought, well I could pretend that I didn't and still be her friend, but everytime she told me about messing around with other guys and stuff it would hurt me. So, in effect, I'd rather not know until I can know without getting upset...and that requires no communication. Even if that makes me a ***.

it doesnt make you a ***, we have been tellin you this shit for the longest. cut off contact, how many times did we say that.

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

yes he does know.


It's one of the biggest mistakes I've made with a friend. and not just any friend but a pretty decent one. He and I just kind of lost touch a lot this year and we haven't been as good of friends like before. But he used to be my best friend and I viewed his chick just like one of the guys. I don't know what came over me but I guess we just clicked that one night because she and I were both talking about our relationship problems. It just happened and I wish I could take it back but i can't.

I guess since most of you have said i shouldn't say something I guess i won't but I still feel like I should. I dunno

was it good at least?

 

[Johnny Drama 5,000+ posts]

Phillifeg called goob to get unbanned....

 

[Johnny Drama 5,000+ posts]

Pathetic.

 

[DBfan187 5,000+ posts]

ban him again

 

[DBfan187 5,000+ posts]

permenant

 

[81elocd]

maybe that's why my ex gets upset whenever I talk about hooking up with different girls. I see now.
but good for you man, I'm glad you are making a stand. I always used to text people from the forums when I was about to call or text jennifer and they would always help me. Perhaps you should do the same.

i know someone he could text //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

 

[Johnny Drama 5,000+ posts]

Chris, my suggestion to you is to just let it go. Eventually you will either be good firends again or never speak again...Move on.

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

wtf? goob is racist. that grand wizard didnt answer my call or texts.

just ban seth again