chica issues

[saywhat? 5,000+ posts]

story goes - we met at the bowling alley as we both bowled saturday morning league. we started talkin about 3 months ago and i had no idea she actually liked me, so just only about a month or so ago i started asking for a movie or dinner or (even valentines) something. well her job always had her working till 6 or 7 every night, and her curfue is 10 (junior in high school, im a senior) so get home at 630, ready at 7, out the door at 730, movie till 930 or later, get to car 10 or later, "do our thing" for a little, and go home, shes home an hour late, so we never got to really chill. i backed out a couple times because i was honestly tired, and it wouldnt be a fun night. so come to this week and we havent reall spend much time together, but we talked on a regular basis. i didnt call her for maybe a week and a half. i was my idea not to, so i could see if she would call. she didnt, so i finally talked to her and everything was good. well in that week she figured i "lost interest" and came to the conclusion that she would start dating another guy. it wasnt recent that i didnt call her, it was prolly like a month ago. so she starts goin with this kid bcuz i never "took it into my hands to make things work". now im a nice guy, and im moving in two months. to speak honesty i wanted to spend the last little bit wit her, but it would hurt the both of us come the time i move. she said thats one thing that really crossed her mind when thinkin about dating me. now should i tell her how i feel about how messed up it is, and ask for one more chance to be able to atleast spend time with her and if something happens, then it happens? but im not gunna do this with her being in a relationship bcuz i respect that. do i ask for a chance to show im good for it? do i just say screw it, im out in two months and deal with it? doi just tell her that i didnt take initiative bcuz i have a guilty conciense and i actually care how she is after i leave and see if she is good to try it for the last little bit im here? what would yall do?

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[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

just dump her unless there is going to be some pre-marital *** involved. i wonder why i don't date that much? //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/uhoh.gif.c07307dd22ee7e63e22fc8e9c614d1fd.gif

 

[TwistedVisions 10+ year member]

You should tell her your reasons for not calling her, its best to get everything straight before you leave. Just because your leaving in 2 months I dont' think you should just blow her off and move on because if you really like her then you will regret doing that which i know i would. Just be upfront with her and tell her how you feel regardless of she is dating that guy, because far as you know she could just be dating him to get her mind off thinking of you.

 

[saywhat? 5,000+ posts]

twisted....u always come wit the straight shiot haha, good thinkin man, get on aim. pre maritual ***.......not a huge thing, im not lookin to get laid. im lookin to spend the last two months here wit someone i enjoy being with.

 

[electronicsgeek 10+ year member]

story goes - we met at the bowling alley as we both bowled saturday morning league. we started talkin about 3 months ago and i had no idea she actually liked me, so just only about a month or so ago i started asking for a movie or dinner or (even valentines) something. well her job always had her working till 6 or 7 every night, and her curfue is 10 (junior in high school, im a senior) so get home at 630, ready at 7, out the door at 730, movie till 930 or later, get to car 10 or later, "do our thing" for a little, and go home, shes home an hour late, so we never got to really chill. i backed out a couple times because i was honestly tired, and it wouldnt be a fun night. so come to this week and we havent reall spend much time together, but we talked on a regular basis. i didnt call her for maybe a week and a half. i was my idea not to, so i could see if she would call. she didnt, so i finally talked to her and everything was good. well in that week she figured i "lost interest" and came to the conclusion that she would start dating another guy. it wasnt recent that i didnt call her, it was prolly like a month ago. so she starts goin with this kid bcuz i never "took it into my hands to make things work". now im a nice guy, and im moving in two months. to speak honesty i wanted to spend the last little bit wit her, but it would hurt the both of us come the time i move. she said thats one thing that really crossed her mind when thinkin about dating me. now should i tell her how i feel about how messed up it is, and ask for one more chance to be able to atleast spend time with her and if something happens, then it happens? but im not gunna do this with her being in a relationship bcuz i respect that. do i ask for a chance to show im good for it? do i just say screw it, im out in two months and deal with it? doi just tell her that i didnt take initiative bcuz i have a guilty conciense and i actually care how she is after i leave and see if she is good to try it for the last little bit im here? what would yall do?

no one gives a **** about your personal issues...

this is a caraudio forum...not no freakn lovers and friends forum...

 

[Expy2000]

Oh god dammnnn

guys in this country can't be any more pussified.....

Cut that 5th wheel loose...

.......... or atleast pull out your weiner and put it in her face...

 

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

twisted....u always come wit the straight shiot haha, good thinkin man, get on aim. pre maritual ***.......not a huge thing, im not lookin to get laid. im lookin to spend the last two months here wit someone i enjoy being with.

me and you are two different people. i don't like spending time with women, just getting laid. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/yumyum.gif.0556df42231b304b9c995aefd13928a8.gif//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/cuddle.gif.bd1b29c179c0482f8313dbd790b74c94.gif :boobies:

 

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

no one gives a **** about your personal issues...
this is a caraudio forum...not no freakn lovers and friends forum...

this is the lounge where we talk about off topic issues. if you don't like here is a list of other forums: http://www.sounddomain.com, http://www.soundillusions.net, http://www.caraudioforum.com, http://www.elitecaraudio.com, http://www.termpro.com, http://www.soundsolutionsaudio.com, http://www.icixsound.com

this is my new answer to all the problems with ca.com. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/cool.gif.3bcaf8f141236c00f8044d07150e34f7.gif

 

[swaptrex 10+ year member]

story goes - we met at the bowling alley as we both bowled saturday morning league. we started talkin about 3 months ago and i had no idea she actually liked me, so just only about a month or so ago i started asking for a movie or dinner or (even valentines) something. well her job always had her working till 6 or 7 every night, and her curfue is 10 (junior in high school, im a senior) so get home at 630, ready at 7, out the door at 730, movie till 930 or later, get to car 10 or later, "do our thing" for a little, and go home, shes home an hour late, so we never got to really chill. i backed out a couple times because i was honestly tired, and it wouldnt be a fun night. so come to this week and we havent reall spend much time together, but we talked on a regular basis. i didnt call her for maybe a week and a half. i was my idea not to, so i could see if she would call. she didnt, so i finally talked to her and everything was good. well in that week she figured i "lost interest" and came to the conclusion that she would start dating another guy. it wasnt recent that i didnt call her, it was prolly like a month ago. so she starts goin with this kid bcuz i never "took it into my hands to make things work". now im a nice guy, and im moving in two months. to speak honesty i wanted to spend the last little bit wit her, but it would hurt the both of us come the time i move. she said thats one thing that really crossed her mind when thinkin about dating me. now should i tell her how i feel about how messed up it is, and ask for one more chance to be able to atleast spend time with her and if something happens, then it happens? but im not gunna do this with her being in a relationship bcuz i respect that. do i ask for a chance to show im good for it? do i just say screw it, im out in two months and deal with it? doi just tell her that i didnt take initiative bcuz i have a guilty conciense and i actually care how she is after i leave and see if she is good to try it for the last little bit im here? what would yall do?

so that brings up a question i have always had, what is the calling situation when you first start talking to a girl? every other day, twice a week, etc. for the most part i just wait until they call me, but somrtimes when i'm talkin to a hottie i want to be on top of my game.....pretty much for the reason that they don't find someone else like your situation.

 

[saywhat? 5,000+ posts]

no one gives a **** about your personal issues...
this is a caraudio forum...not no freakn lovers and friends forum...

this is also the lounge....WHERE OFF TOPIC ISSUES ARE DISCUSSED......wut a ******

 

[saywhat? 5,000+ posts]

this is the lounge where we talk about off topic issues. if you don't like here is a list of other forums: http://www.sounddomain.com, http://www.soundillusions.net, http://www.caraudioforum.com, http://www.elitecaraudio.com, http://www.termpro.com, http://www.soundsolutionsaudio.com, http://www.icixsound.com

this is my new answer to all the problems with ca.com. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/cool.gif.3bcaf8f141236c00f8044d07150e34f7.gif

im sorry not every post is to your liking. but u dont gotta be a litle b!tch about it. its called the lounge for a reason.

 

[chefboyrlee 10+ year member]

u're still in high school. there will be plenty more to come. do what twisted said, be straight up with her. also, spending time with her shouldn't be a problem if your intentions are purely platonic when it comes to her being in a relationship. if you have feelings for her, and she has feelings for you, don't let that other dood get in your way, survival of the fittest (unless he's your friend). if it don't work, u got 2 months to try and bang all the girls u've fantasized about. don't get hung up on a long distance thing either...especially if u'll be goin to college. poon galore in college. play u're cards right...good luck.

 

[DBfan187 5,000+ posts]

if she has a sister, do her. Also, her mom.

 

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

im sorry not every post is to your liking. but u dont gotta be a litle b!tch about it. its called the lounge for a reason.

i was suporting you and your topic. i was telling the guy if he has a problem with you or this topic, there are other forums he can visit and discuss car audio since he remarked in his post this is a car audio forum not love connection or whatever he said. i support you and get called a little *****. maybe i should take my own advice.

 

[InhumanAcura 5,000+ posts]

have you ever heard of a paragraph j/c