Bad week...

[bonesninja 5,000+ posts]

life and death, it happens. You can't stop it. At least if it does comes you'll be somewhat prepared for that shit now.

exactly....i know theres absolutely nothing i can do. I put my trust in the Lord that this is all his plan no matter how its happens, its by design

 

[canemaster 10+ year member]

She used to physically abuse me and my older sister when we were kids. She would beat us with belts, sticks, spatula's, wooden spoons, hair brushes etc.

Ok now I guess that's considered physical abuse but I was hit with belts and paddles when I acted up...

It worked for me

But sucks man. Things will get better... Spend time with your dad?

 

[bonesninja 5,000+ posts]

Ok now I guess that's considered physical abuse but I was hit with belts and paddles when I acted up...
It worked for me

But sucks man. Things will get better... Spend time with your dad?

these weren't spankin's...these were across the back, stomach leave gashes, bruises etc

 

[Hintzyboy 5,000+ posts]

You should never have guilt over your feelings. Not knowing why you're upset in this kind of situation is normal. You shut that part of your life out for a long time and never really figured out how you felt about it. You worked it out enough to move on, but that doesn't mean you really worked it out. You'll figure everything out in time. Just know that whatever you feel: sadness, relief, disdain, anger, indifference, whatever: is a natural reaction. Guilt is the only useless emotion. The rest are there for a reason.

 

[Fusion_FREAK 10+ year member]

That just sucks..

I hope your dad comes out alright. My parents got divorced when I was little, and I didn't see him until I was about 12, and only seen him a hand full of times, and I haven't seen/spoke to him in about 6 years. So I could really careless about him, but if something were to happen to my grandpa, I don't think i would be alright for a long time..

 

[wasted ink 10+ year member]

sorry for your loss; condolences to your family man

 

[bunkerking09 10+ year member]

when i feel bad i buy really expenziev car audio stuff...maybe you should try that.

 

[Cutdawg84 10+ year member]

bas10orry about all the bad news, hope your dad gets better. Atleast you confronted them about the past before it was to late. That takes guts, especially when dealing with child abuse

 

[Pl8er 5,000+ posts]

Dang man, really sorry to hear about this! I think it is good that you faced your demons when you did though. And your dad will be ok. He will need family for sure during these rough times, but that will get him through it.

Make sure he starts taking better care of himself (now more than ever).

 

[_DjScrew_ 5,000+ posts]

sorry to hear it bro.

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

Thats crazy. Hope your brother makes it there safe and I hope your dad pulls through, its going to be really hard for him. Make sure you are there for him every way possible.

 

[bonesninja 5,000+ posts]

Here's the obituary if any one is interested.....no rude comments please

http://www.legacy.com/ToledoBlade/Obituaries.asp?Page=LifeStory&PersonID=120745873

 

[bonesninja 5,000+ posts]

That just sucks..
I hope your dad comes out alright. My parents got divorced when I was little, and I didn't see him until I was about 12, and only seen him a hand full of times, and I haven't seen/spoke to him in about 6 years. So I could really careless about him, but if something were to happen to my grandpa, I don't think i would be alright for a long time..

If you have the ability or means to find him....do it. If for no other reason, just confront him and say what you need to say to him. I exercised my demons i think and i truly felt as if a great weight had been lifted...plus life is too short for a man not to know his dad

 

[Rashaddd 5,000+ posts]

messed up indeed...

best of luck to you