What are you his dad? STFU!
Could be. Need pics of mom to be sure. Noodz from about 17 years ago would help.
Maybe he lives in the boonies or something. Got to love people that think they know all there is to know about someone else based on a few posts from someone.
Tough love, baby. This is CA.com, not oprah. We don't sugar coat shit here.
I do know a few things he's told us. He's got a broken car he can't afford to fix. He's looking for a loan, but has no job to repay said loan, and excuses why he can't get a job.
I don't care if he lives in BFE. There's work to be done within walking distance of where he lives. Lawncare, cleaning homes, babysitting, handyman work, farmwork and helping the elderly are not glamorous but they can be had in every rural corner of the USA and they pay in US Dollars.
Somewhere near him is someone with money saying they can't find anyone to do the job. The broken car in the driveway should have a sign on it that says "Excuses".
What good is a loan if you have no way to repay it?