perhaps, but my balls have dropped. it has to of been the way this came about for me is all. cause if a guy can get rejected and move on then i should be able to. how many of you have quit smoking got lonely finally asked a chick you've had hots for 8 months for on a date and got let down "softly" by a quick change of subject? prob only one on this planet who have had those circumstances go through. i guess most scenarios are unique in their own aspect but this shit is extra gay. it's like trying to compare science experiments with numerous independent variables