but they are flakey at best. It sounds like you have experience with them, which is suprising you have never experienced that.. And maybe the op can't buy stuff at cost.
one relay is hardly a hassle also, maybe the op should consider getting a professional instal if he considers a single relay a hassle in a remote start.
I never said a relay is a hassle, so I'm not sure where that came from. I've been installing my own car audio for years, used relays and switches, etc. Bottom line in car audio is that it's not the slightest bit difficult to get things wired right, or even troubleshoot most things, it just takes patience and the right tools, most of the time.
However, I've never done an alarm or remote start, so I was hoping for some help. I thought that companies like this had a computer program that printed out a sheet for installers that said things like, "Tap pink ignition wire with blue harness wire," etc., printed from a database built off wiring diagrams for individual models. I had hoped someone might toss me a bone and be willing to send me just such a printout, along with maybe some light tech support on the basics I can't figure out on my own. If not, then that's cool, I'll just have to wait to get this done until I can afford it, which will likely be quite a while.
I figured it can't be that friggin' hard, considering some of the toothless wonders I've seen doing this stuff "professionally". I'm not a moron, and after making it through 7 years as a paramedic, 4 years of college, and 4 years of medical school, I do have faith in my intellectual capability to figure things out or at least follow directions.