Okay man you need to get straightened out before you start getting totally misinformed by yourself...
normally an amp connected to a head unit you set the gains to match the output voltage of the head unit its not the head unit thats powering it, its how strong of an audio signal the head unit is giving.
Using your laptop, the signal is not strong enough at all to provide any good amount of signal to the amp thats why you have to use bass boost. The thing is, bass boost normally leads to clipping, distortion and heat, which will kill your equipment in the long run.
You Cannot hear distortion with the human ear, you can only check to see if there's distortion in the signal with an oscilloscope. What might sound crystal clear to you might be a square sound wave on the oscilloscope.