My dad being a (now retired) cop and growing up with black friends who were nothing more than backstabbers, I am somewhat biased to just not liking black people. I honestly judge them based on their cover, more deeply based on my past experiences. But then, after working in the mall for 3 years, you start to see that most stereotypes are true. Rich white people are bitchy, Indians are cheap and stink, Mexicans steal (but they don't say anything when they do), Blacks steal (but they usually like to strike up conversation and act like they're your buddy to try and distract you), Asians always want a discount.
My point? I judge people based on MY experiences. My philosophy in life, while very negative and pessimistic, is very realistic. If the saying "one bad apple can spoil the bunch" is true, then what that says to me is "one good apple can't save the spoiled bunch".
Just because there is an affluent, upper-class "black neighborhood" doesn't mean diddly squat. The fact that you all have to make a POINT that it is an upper-class BLACK neighborhood and not just an upper-class neighborhood, right there proves that you still buy in to America's continued racism.
I have learned to let the past go and try to not pre-judge people, but the more people I meet (of all different races and backgrounds), more often than not, I am right about them. This world is just full of selfish people and I don't think it's going to get better any time soon.
PS, just so you know I'm white/hispanic; have dated Filipino, white, Mexican and Asian girls and my "best friend" for 10 years was black. Until he decided to date my ex, right after we had broken up. Thanks man! My next 3 black friends were just as shady. I have a pretty wide range of direct experiences with many different kinds of people.
My conclusion? In general, this world is just equally fucked up everywhere, and the majority of the US population are just shady bastards!
short dude is here to address the bolded........... and as a general post to everybody
doesn't mean diddly squat to who? sir, ur clearly not aware of the particular -->general roots of the ****ed-upness in black neighborhoods. nvm, i'll summ it up like this.......
WHAT THEY SEE IS WHAT THEY'LL BE.
fuvk any type of racism, when u see behavviors over and over, you'll repeat them. when u know a certain mind state and believe it to be practical for the here and now, you will imitate that mindset. if all your friends are playing basketball and football and they belive they'll get signed to a team, despite the odds against them and how wack they are on the field/ court, you'll probably try to do the same thing, ever though u have a club foot.
if u know somebody who is selling crack gets 80 - 90 percent of their problems solved via having money, well, who here doesn't think most of their problems aren't solved with money???
if you're surrounded by dentists and lawyers all your life, u see that u need to go to high school, u need to keep a 3.5 gpa, u have to go to college and its a must that you go to grad/law/med school..... anything else is out of the ordinary.
now to say that an 'upper class black neighborhood' means jack sh!t, ur completely fukin wrong!!!! its means the world to ppl have want to do better for themselves but they don't see themselves singing, rapping, throwing a ball or cookin up fishscales. it means the worl to ppl who
KNOW there's more out there than hood life........ but where??? where's it at!?!?? it means the world to inmates,men and women alike, who are determined not to get pulled back in or voluntarily run back into the cycle of incarceration, but who else has been locked up with felonies and hard misdemeanors but now has a $550k house with 2 cars and retirement money all from a legitamate career?? the upper-class black neighborhood has examples.
personally, i don't believe racism is doin significant damage to the black community. i
think its the mindstate of the ppl and the media that black ppl like to seek out that does the most damage. WHAT THEY SEE IS WHAT THEY'LL BE success breeds success, postin on the block breeds postin on the block
WHAT THEY SEE IS WHAT THEY'LL BE
and i don't care what color u are, how many 40 second nuts u busted in 8 - 9 pumps in whatever chick nor do i care if u were friends with huey newton and amilcar cabral..........