3 Year relationship, down the hole tonight ...

Happened to me before and she wondered why i didnt care. If she does something like that, shes not worth having any feelings over. Funny how much I cared but I didnt care at the same time... It still confuses me to this day.

 
My girlfriend ended our relationship after 3 years about 10 minutes ago... stil in tears letting you guys know first... That heartbreak sucks.. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif
Specailly when she leaves for another guy...

Tim
Yeah man that will piss you off when there is another guy involved, You need to go out with some friends and have some fun. Enjoy your freedom, Your to young to be tied down in a long serious relationship. Those things are meant for later in life.

Peace.

 
My girlfriend ended our relationship after 3 years about 10 minutes ago... stil in tears letting you guys know first... That heartbreak sucks.. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif
Specailly when she leaves for another guy...

Tim
I'm really sorry to hear that man,That really sucks that u ahve to go through such a thing. Everything happens for a reason, maybe yall were meant to break up and the girl of your dreams or the "THE ONE" will come into your life. Also have to ask yourself "were u happy in the relationship"..What did yall ahve in common and how well did the both of u get along.. Most is irrevelant now, but I would say to just move on and start trying to meet girls..IF their were any girls chasing u while u were in the relationship..CALL THEM NOW..I found out that the girls that chase u while in a relationship are the ONES to be with..I wish the best for you man, hope everything works out for the better.

Blake

 
Happened to me about 6 months ago. When i eventually uncovered the truth, she went to the cops and told them i tried to beat her up and pulled a gun for the other guy etc.

Was very f*cked up.

3 years too man, it hurts but say what that's life. I glad it happened now rather than years into marriage with kids etc.

Single life is good man. Enjoy it.

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My girlfriend ended our relationship after 3 years about 10 minutes ago... stil in tears letting you guys know first... That heartbreak sucks.. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif
Specailly when she leaves for another guy...

Tim
Exact same thing happened to be at the beginning of this semester of college; it was a week or so before our 2.5 year anniversary. I was struggling with the emotions of being pissed, hating her, being sad, etc. After moping for 2 months or so, I finally said enough is enough and found out that good women really aren't that hard to come by. :p

I started doing the things I enjoyed again and realized I was putting my dreams on hold for her. Now, I'm working my *** off to be the best and at the top of my game. Sometimes it takes a painful breakup to find out what you have been missing in life and how much you changed it to accomodate another person.

 
Sometimes it takes a painful breakup to find out what you have been missing in life and how much you changed it to accomodate another person.
So true, My last relationship ruined me. After realizing what I gave up for 4 yrs in a horrible relationship, I highly doubt I can sacrifice the things I enjoy in life for another woman like i did for the last. If I ever get married I will feel sorry for my wife for having to put up with me.

And as a saying goes, "It take a real b!tch to turn a nice guy into an *******" so true

 
My girlfriend ended our relationship after 3 years about 10 minutes ago... stil in tears letting you guys know first... That heartbreak sucks.. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif
Specailly when she leaves for another guy...

Tim
well there is no handbook to deal with this type of stuff. just stay calm and take you time. it will be hard but hey every cloud has a silver lining. really wish all of us could be there with you..

i guess the fact that everyone has to go through this some time or another makes it bearable.

 
Maybe instead of shit talking the women maybe u should look back and see if YOU had somethign to do with the shitty relationship or the break up..etc..Not always the womans fault!
Blake
It went both ways for me, But I was never an ******* until I had been in this last relationship for a long time. Plus we were living together which will turn things into a whole other animal

 
Man, I don't know what to say.

I talked to me mom about this a year or so back. She said.

"If its true, wish them luck and move on. That'll really get them confused. Chances are she'll come back." (quote for quote)

I know for a fact that if you were in a serious relationship, and you told them, "wish you luck", they'd be confused.

But if I were in the position, I would curb stomp that mother ****er and have him wish he didn't **** with me.

 
Ive been with my g/f for nearly 8 months now and you know, I kinda miss being single... Not having to buy anything for her, being able to do whatever I want, not have to worry about calling her nearly everyday, and stuff like that. I guess I miss the freedom, but you know, everytimg I look at her, its like all that goes away and suddenly, all the freedom I gave up, and all the extra money that I could have, it all suddenly seems so worth it everytime I see her beautiful smile. So I have to say that im happy in my relationship. At least now I have someone that will always be there for me whenever I need them, and someone to help me through things when I need it.

 
just dont screw up and have a kid. i messed up and have a kid on the way and im only 19. i wish we could of broke up before this mess, and now things are different, she acts really different and pisses me off alot now to the point i want to leave the state.

 
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