3 Year relationship, down the hole tonight ...

just dont screw up and have a kid. i messed up and have a kid on the way and im only 19. i wish we could of broke up before this mess, and now things are different, she acts really different and pisses me off alot now to the point i want to leave the state.
That would ****, But you must be a man and take responsibility. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif

 
"Jerry, We have to break up"

"Oh, ok."

"Huh?"

"Oh yeah, it's no problem, I'll find someone else. Ya see, things always even out for me. Anyways, it's been real fun dating you for awhile, and uh, good luck"

We can all learn a thing or two from Jerry Seinfeld. :thumbsup

 
Yeh the good luck thing ALWAYS get's them confused.

What even kills them more is, when you see her in public, don't speak to her, but kill her with a SMILE //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

 
I dont know what to do, i just had the worst night ever, i sat up all night wondering what the **** i've done wrong.. feels like my guts all twisted and turned i cant think i dont want to go to work but i have too... **** i miss her so much... theres nothingi can do and thats what makes it worse... This is the worst feeling you can imagine.. But what goes up must come down i guess, now i just have to deal with this but its hard...

Would it be better to jump into dating right now? Theres this one chick thats really sexy and wants to bone me... but i dunno if i can deal with that right now, but maybe it will work?

Tim

 
I dont know what to do, i just had the worst night ever, i sat up all night wondering what the **** i've done wrong.. feels like my guts all twisted and turned i cant think i dont want to go to work but i have too... **** i miss her so much... theres nothingi can do and thats what makes it worse... This is the worst feeling you can imagine.. But what goes up must come down i guess, now i just have to deal with this but its hard...
Would it be better to jump into dating right now? Theres this one chick thats really sexy and wants to bone me... but i dunno if i can deal with that right now, but maybe it will work?

Tim


Put it to her........

And if this girl ever decides to call you back then be like you know what I found that you were the reason for me feeling so bad all the time.....I just want to thank you for ending it ....That will really get to her....I had a girl for 6 months and we broke up. Never thought I would feel better or anything but time does wonders. Now I have a girl that I have know all my life. We have only been going out for a month and a half, but I think this girl is special. And I know we say that about every girl that we go with but this one's special.....Whenever you see her in public then just smile, act happy and it will eventually get back to her. She will come back, hard to throw away 3 years.

 
Man you might run yourself into a state of depression.

Maybe you already are

The same thing happened to me, same thoughts ran through my head and now i'm pretty messed up, pumped with medication and therapy. Now trying to get back on my own two feet.

Don't let it happen to you

 
Screw having a g/f or wife, I been there done that, it's just a bunch of b/s. Now friends with benefits is where it's at. I do whatever I want, when I want, no girl to take my money. When I want a piece of ***, all I do is pick up the phone. Relationships bring on too much b/s, especially these days with all the cheating and lying, I've been through it all, and I have enough headaches as it is. I love being single. Maybe later in life I'll worry about that stuff, but I'm 23 right now, I have a career and plenty of fun times ahead before I even think about settling down in a relationship with one girl.

 
I'll get a ride down to cambridge and meet up with you silica, we'll go and key his car. I know some good tunes always take me to a better place. But I really dont recomend listening to those newer rock songs, or rock&roll stations. The newer rock songs are always about love, breaking up, and stupid $#!% like that. And if you really wanna piss that guy off, put sugar in his tank, or snip his fuel likes, and take a diamond ring to his windsheild lol. That'll really put him in a bad mood haha.

PS. I live like an hour away from cambridge.

 
I dont know what to do, i just had the worst night ever, i sat up all night wondering what the **** i've done wrong.. feels like my guts all twisted and turned i cant think i dont want to go to work but i have too... **** i miss her so much... theres nothingi can do and thats what makes it worse... This is the worst feeling you can imagine.. But what goes up must come down i guess, now i just have to deal with this but its hard...
Would it be better to jump into dating right now? Theres this one chick thats really sexy and wants to bone me... but i dunno if i can deal with that right now, but maybe it will work?

Tim
My first recomendation(not to be taken seriously unless you are that kinda person) is Bonghits and Vicodin. Second Bang the other girl especially if she is sexy. And phat like usual hit it right on the head. I go to a school absolutly dominated by girls and I have nothing but the best time. Its what you make it, and now you are at that road in your life where you wanna make the next months, years the best you can. Do what it takes.

 
just dont screw up and have a kid. i messed up and have a kid on the way and im only 19. i wish we could of broke up before this mess, and now things are different, she acts really different and pisses me off alot now to the point i want to leave the state.
I had my first son at the age of 19.

Do not assume it's always a screw up. I was prepared and ready for it.

I have never once regretted the decision to bring my two children into my household with my wife.

 
I'm afraid I am going through **** near the same thing. best friend for the past 8 years, love of my life for 5, going out for 2.5 years (also went out in high school). going to different schools for the second year in a row now and we are on the verge.........distance+stress+not being able to see eachother often+emotional girlfriend+ + +....and who knows whats gonna happen next. It sucks. It has happened to me before though and I'm almost positive it will be hell for you for a few months but it will get better again, it always does. Just spend alot of time with family and friends, force yourself to go out and be social, do things that make you feel good and eventually it'll all work out. Focus on things you wanted to do but couldnt because of your relationship....P.S. you dont want a relationship where your GF cant make up her mind on the 2 of you.....way too much stress.

 
I dont know what to do, i just had the worst night ever, i sat up all night wondering what the **** i've done wrong.. feels like my guts all twisted and turned i cant think i dont want to go to work but i have too... **** i miss her so much... theres nothingi can do and thats what makes it worse... This is the worst feeling you can imagine.. But what goes up must come down i guess, now i just have to deal with this but its hard...
Would it be better to jump into dating right now? Theres this one chick thats really sexy and wants to bone me... but i dunno if i can deal with that right now, but maybe it will work?

Tim
You'll figure things out after a period of time. That period of time, however, is dependant upon the person and their ability to find answers among emotional irrationality. Although not easy, looking objectively at things often times helps matters. Don't be temeritous with the situation. Enjoy the company of your friends, and the subsequent guiltless nights out. It's a poignant time, do your best not to be languid and listless. Recrudescence is the key here; whipe the slate clean and continue to be yourself. Things will work out just fine in the end.

 
You'll figure things out after a period of time. That period of time, however, is dependant upon the person and their ability to find answers among emotional irrationality. Although not easy, looking objectively at things often times helps matters. Don't be temeritous with the situation. Enjoy the company of your friends, and the subsequent guiltless nights out. It's a poignant time, do your best not to be languid and listless. Recrudescence is the key here; whipe the slate clean and continue to be yourself. Things will work out just fine in the end.

English please?.....

 
English please?.....
I understood it; the only part that isn't English is misspelling wipe as "whipe". And I am not sure temerity can be conjugated the way it was. :p

In layman's terms, this woman has to figure it out with herself and there is nothing anyone can do to help this along. So just hope for the best and don't add fuel to the fire...but don't wait for her either. Go out and have fun; don't sit around and spend a huge amount of time thinking of her and the situation while ignoring the rest of life.

 
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