You've missed the point I, and I think denim, have made. My subs are 05 RE XXX's, so you are preaching to the choir about preferring BL optimization. Flat BL drivers produce less BL distortion, which means greater accuracy, no question. But when you say "sounds better", you add in that subjective factor that Ive mentioned before. Once you start talking about what sounds 'better' (how most people define SQ, which is defining it incorrectly), it just boils down to opinions, not facts, specs, or flat BL curves. Many people believe the 'warmth' of a tube amp sounds better than solid state, even though that warmth is nothing more than even-order harmonic distortion.
Between the multiple threads now, more than one person has described their first encounter with an xbl^2 driver as sounding flat or lifeless. To them it sounded 'wrong', even though technically its more 'right' than the sound of non BL optimized speakers they were use to. Personal preference going on here, and it took a while, at least in jdc753's case, for the sound to grow on them.
Distortion is definitely audible in subs. But subs are the hardest speaker to hear distortion from due to their freq range. The human ear is much more sensitive to midrange and treble freqs, we hear inaccuracies at those freqs much easier than we do at close-to-subsonic frequencies. This is exactly how manufacturers justified releasing class D subwoofer amps long before they felt they had a design with distortion levels low enough for full-range duties.