work entertainment thread 2/31/08 (spider monkey, IamDeman, hoss, others, pubes)

[hoss 5,000+ posts]

Don't text for at least one week. You have put the call in and she got it (unless for some reason all VM systems went dead). So if she wants to call she will. If not, in a week call and just say that you saw her old text and thought you would see how she was doing, if she was going to that club etc.
Oh.....and I put this on a thread a few minutes ago LOL

Re: What all have you broke on your car/truck/van with bass.

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Thread is boring without pictures.

I once broke the flux capacitor on my car though from hitting 152 DEEEBEEEZ. I was stuck in 1866 for a week while repairing it.

lol. nice //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/cool.gif.3bcaf8f141236c00f8044d07150e34f7.gif

i guess the not texting for a week makes sense, just thought it might be an easy way to send her a message and tell her to call since we have already held text conversation. **** ho's, she needs to just return the call...

 

[hoss 5,000+ posts]

alright, so here is the story for the advice i need...
last saturday night i went out to a local bar/club deal here in town, went out drinking, did a little dancing, had a good time. i ended up dancing with this chick for quite some time, we talked alot, enjoyed the evening, nothing particularly special, just dancing and having a conversation (as best you can in a loud club).

at the end of the night the lights come on, i go to give her a hug and say thanks for dancing with me. i wasnt looking to meet anyone that night, as i had a girlfriend, but i still went out and enjoyed myself (perhaps a bit more than i should have...). as i went in for the hug, she asked me if i wanted her phone number, to which i replied yes, of course. she gave me her phone number, i put it in my phone and i said i would be in touch. she challenged me that i would not remember her name, so shortly after we left the club i sent her a text message with her name and a smiley face. we had a conversation via text the whole way home that night, and then when i got home we had a 30 minute conversation on the phone before bed.

i have since broken up with the girlfriend, and wed evening i called the new girl to see if she wanted to meet up this weekend. she didnt answer, i left her a voice mail, which has not been returned yet...

should i call her back this afternoon? should i call her back tomorow? would it be weird if i sent her a tect message today while im at work and then possibly tried calling her tomorow?

putting it on page three.

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

Text her -- she is definitely interested. She may just not want to call but would be less inhibited about texting. If she does not return the text, then you know she has died (or something like that).

 

[hoss 5,000+ posts]

Text her -- she is definitely interested. She may just not want to call but would be less inhibited about texting. If she does not return the text, then you know she has died (or something like that).

that was kind of the logic i was using. maybe she is too intimidated to call back, but she would probably answer a text...

although she was forward enough to ask if i wanted her number... but there was social lubrication involved in that.

 

[hoss 5,000+ posts]

i was thinking about texting her something like "hey you, give me a call or shoot me a message sometime and lets try to hang out"

or maybe "you avoiding my calls? if you dont call back ill kill you. and myself"

 

[hoss 5,000+ posts]

its real, and it happens. it is what explains the "drunk enough to dance" principal, which also happened in the same night.

 

[DBfan187 5,000+ posts]

I'm not reading all of that.

 

[hoss 5,000+ posts]

I'm not reading all of that.

cliffs:

met a girl at a bar/club, was somewhat obvious she was interested (as seen by her next move), she offered me her phone number, i called her wed and left a voicemail, she has not called back. what/when should be the next move.

you should really read it all, its a great story.

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

He already left a message. He doesnt wanna seem desperate.

I realize that he does not want to seem desperate. But he left a voice message, which kinda calls for a telephone call in return. Some women are still reluctant to call guys early on (I am guessing, since my wife does not let me date it has been a while).

that was kind of the logic i was using. maybe she is too intimidated to call back, but she would probably answer a text...
although she was forward enough to ask if i wanted her number... but there was social lubrication involved in that.

I noted that she offered her number -- which on its face would tend to indicate that she is neither shy nor old fashioned. But sometimes women will over compensate if, upon reflection, they think they have been too "forward."

I still say text. I imagine that is an easy medium for women these days since they do it all freaking day long.

Of course, whe may have been having a spat with her BF and has since reconciled. WTF knows. Anyway, i think that texting gives you a good indication of where she is. I would avoid any discussion of potential *******. Instead, you may want to say, hey I was thinking of going to [insert interesting place/activity here], would you like to go?

 

[hoss 5,000+ posts]

**** it just text her. Then find her on facebook so we can rate her.

dont know her last name, and i know better than to post anything of that nature here...

I noted that she offered her number -- which on its face would tend to indicate that she is neither shy nor old fashioned. But sometimes women will over compensate if, upon reflection, they think they have been too "forward."
I still say text. I imagine that is an easy medium for women these days since they do it all freaking day long.

Of course, whe may have been having a spat with her BF and has since reconciled. WTF knows. Anyway, i think that texting gives you a good indication of where she is. I would avoid any discussion of potential *******. Instead, you may want to say, hey I was thinking of going to [insert interesting place/activity here], would you like to go?

i like the way you think. you should discuss with your wife the possibility of you re-entreing into the dating scene (while remaining married)

i had also considered the possibility that she was rebeling against a boyfriend, as that was pretty much what i was doing with my gf that night.

im gonna text her, see if that illicits any response.

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

dont know her last name, and i know better than to post anything of that nature here...

i like the way you think. you should discuss with your wife the possibility of you re-entreing into the dating scene (while remaining married)

i had also considered the possibility that she was rebeling against a boyfriend, as that was pretty much what i was doing with my gf that night.

im gonna text her, see if that illicits any response.

She is uncompromising -- which pisses me of because I had always heard that marriage was all about compromise (in reliance on that, I thought I was golden heading into this thing). She also gets pissed off if I just meet someone and bring them home. (We have a king size bed, so I don't see what the big deal is personally).

 

[hoss 5,000+ posts]

alright, here is what i have in the phone ready to send:

"hey you, just thought i'd send a message and see how your week went. give me a call sometime and maybe we can get together and hang out!"

 

[crunktimes.com 5,000+ posts]

I would try her again next week, if you call again esp on a weekend she may think you are desperate. It is obvious she is interested in you so I would hold out and just wait a bit longer and hopefully she will start to feign for the hoss sausage during the week and give you a call.

 

[hoss 5,000+ posts]

She is uncompromising -- which pisses me of because I had always heard that marriage was all about compromise (in reliance on that, I thought I was golden heading into this thing). She also gets pissed off if I just meet someone and bring them home. (We have a king size bed, so I don't see what the big deal is personally).

sounds like she has some issues... and honestly, i would be pissed if i were you...

i have a king sized bed as well, and i can truthfully say that it will sleep 8 people comfortably. she shouldnt have a problem with just one other person...

 

[hoss 5,000+ posts]

Im sure if a few members here are shown the girls facebook they can provide some very helpful words to her. Such as the size of your dick and what not.

im sure several of the members here could tell her that information, size, color, type of jewelry... but you still seem to be overlooking facts, like that i dont have her facebook page //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/tongue.gif.6130eb82179565f6db8d26d6001dcd24.gif

I would try her again next week, if you call again esp on a weekend she may think you are desperate. It is obvious she is interested in you so I would hold out and just wait a bit longer and hopefully she will start to feign for the hoss sausage during the week and give you a call.

dammit, i hate when these logical answers come along... i want answers now dammit //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crying.gif.ec0ebefe590df0251476573bc49e46d8.gif