What would you do.. (Relationship advice)

[Captain_Ahab 5,000+ posts]

Alright... I'm gonna keep it as plain as I can..Heres the deal..

Was in a love with a girl I had dated around 3 months and she dumps me about 2 weeks into my college career. She told me she was in love with me too..Never gave an exact reason for dumping me. She seemed almost as confused as I was. Said she needed time to think things out.. Her next relationship didn't last long at all and she wanted to start talking to me again.. Told me she dumped me cause she was afraid of a real serious relationship.. She was afraid of getting hurt as bad as she did in a prior relationship. This was about 6 weeks ago.. I gave her another chance and went out with her one Friday night and we had a blast.. Told me she still loved me and regretted breaking up.. We weren't officially dating again, but the next night she goes over to the guy's house who hurt her so bad before.. She got drunk, had sex with the guy, and didn't come home that night.. This girl is 17 and her parents made it clear she was going to stay away from that guy, and if she didn't, there would be great consequences.. The reasoning for this is b/c that guy got her on drugs and messed up her life previously.. Anyways, for the first time in my life I was emotionally hurt by a girl.. Thought about her everyday for the next 6 weeks..

And then.. Girl B comes along.. Tomorrow will be our 1-month anniversary.. This girl is a little wild, but claims she will settle down to be with me.. We have already had a few arguments but they have mostly been corrected.. She has changed for me already.. Shes funner to be around with than Girl A.. She also lives in my college town so I am with her almost daily, whereas with Girl A I would only see on weekends.. I know it isnt really that important in a relationship, but I am wearing it out with Girl B, whereas I never got to with Girl A..

The thing IS... I talked to Girl A Friday night and she told me how much she missed me, truthfully loved me, and regretted everything.. Thing is, I love her and can see myself with her in the future.. Whereas with Girl B, I honestly can;t c myself with her a year from now.. I still have strong feelings for Girl A..

So what do I do?/

Break up with Girl B which I get to see daily, have great sex with, will take shots of whiskey with me, have more fun, and do not love her ( I know its only been a month, but I can't see myself loving her like I did Girl A) to date Girl A.. Which I still have strong feelings for, won't get to see her but on the weekends, probably no sexual relations whatsoever for a while...

Very complicated situated..

And oh yeah, when I begin to date Girl B is when I begin to get over Girl A and didn't think about her constantly..

Hope it aint too confusing..

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[yne721 10+ year member]

i would just go get someone to sell me beer, then call the cops.

just my .02

 

[yne721 10+ year member]

but for cereal....

a. don't say funner it sounds disgusting

b. ditch girl a. she sounds like she's full of problems and contradictions

c. ditch girl b. if you don't see yourself with her.

d. live life and have fun, you're young don't get so caught up in finding a wife yet unless she comes along and you know she's the one

 

[GrayMatter4tw 10+ year member]

considering you just started college, dating a 17 year old isn't as big of a deal but I'd still stay far far far far far far far far far far away.

You are 18. Bang Bang Bang. At this point in life you probably have no clue about what you are looking for in life like most persons.

 

[faulkton 5,000+ posts]

if i was you, i would just kill meself.

 

[jeeper07 5,000+ posts]

i dont know how u fell in love in 3 months...

 

[yne721 10+ year member]

i dont know how u fell in love in 3 months...

i was thinking that same exact thing //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/confused.gif.e820e0216602db4765798ac39d28caa9.gif

 

[faulkton 5,000+ posts]

i think you shoudl dump them both, and date men. You seem like you would enjoy cockcicles

 

[yne721 10+ year member]

i think you shoudl dump them both, and date men. It seems like you would enjoy cockcicles

x2 lol

 

[faulkton 5,000+ posts]

try having sex with a deer carcass

 

[faulkton 5,000+ posts]

oh i know the perfect guy for you to date!!

PhatTonyDeMarco!!q!!a

You both like the penis, and you both enjoy snitching and being a narc!!

**** im better than eharmony!

 

[yne721 10+ year member]

oh i know the perfect guy for you to date!!
PhatTonyDeMarco!!q!!a

You both like the penis, and you both enjoy snitching and being a narc!!

**** im better than eharmony!

eharmony aint got **** on you

 

[GrayMatter4tw 10+ year member]

forget the word girlfriend for the next few years. bang bang bang.

 

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

here is what you do. fuck girl A. wait 2 days. fuck girl B. wait 2 days. now on that second day, the girl you wanna fuck the most is the girl you keep.

the aristotle has spoken

 

[faulkton 5,000+ posts]

you truly are pathetic if you dont have any real life friends you can whine to about your lame ass emo problems.

besides it doesnt matter who you choose, they are both gross fatties and we all know it.

 

[faulkton 5,000+ posts]

camus > aristotle

 

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

me > ca.com

 

[cpierce 5,000+ posts]

Stick with girl B...you are in college, forget about the old high school flames.

 

[Captain_Ahab 5,000+ posts]

Gross fatties??? Wait a few minutes for me to scan a pic and post the other one. Both better than anything you could ever get.. Thats for sure..

And ON TOPIC!!! That bang,bang,bang is getting stuck in my head.. Screw it.. I'm gonna forgot about a serious relationship and just keep wearing it out..Besides I got like 5 more years here anyways...

 

[GrayMatter4tw 10+ year member]

and c and d and e