Do you know anything about societal and social constructs? Gender is not strictly male or female by ****** organ.
I know you want life to be super simple so you don't have to know or learn too much, but it's far more than black and white, up and down, yes and no, hot and cold.
Look up "gender".
You know, you toss about the words "dummy", "idiot", "retard", "moron", etc. an awful lot for someone who keeps demonstrating publicly that his knowledge is quite limited.
Like the comedian Rich Voss, mimicking the nickel slot players who spit on the penny slot players as "trash".