I don't make things personal. You take it personal. That's part of your problem. You overreact and take everything as a personal attack.
Do you think I will feel sorry for a woman who chooses to stay with an abuser for three years. Not a chance I would feel sorry for that person. Anything they choose to put up with after the first incident is on them. Make your bed...
I also have the luxury of knowing many women and how they act. They LOVE to play the victim. They love to lie. I know for a 100% fact that not all abused women were abused women. I know for a 100% fact that not all women are victims.
Did you know that more than 60% of women who are or were in abusive relationships were abusive themselves? Did you know that? Bet ya didn't did ya.
Hey, it's your kid so you have to side with her but that doesn't mean you have to blindly take what she claims as her side of things as 100% true. There is ALWAYS two sides to every story. She never nagged him... never yelled at him, insulted him, threw things at him, hit him? You think this guy just said ahh what the hell, I think I will be abusive to this chick for no reason whatsoever. Guys do a pretty good job of dealing with that kind of stuff but eventually SNAP! A person can only take so much crap before they explode.
Listening to how you argue on this website and how you repeat the same things over and over and over with your one sided views, you don't think that kind of stuff rubs off on kids? You don't think she was at his house just drilling the same thing over and over and over and over and over? I see how much you do it and I know that woman take it to the next level. Just sayin. I could be 100% wrong. She could be an angel.