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[ThxOne Premium Member]

You are a dikk. That's my daughter. A man who puts his hands on a woman because of what she might say is a huge pusssy. How dare you think that my daughter getting stabbed in the back with a fork is her fault. Guys who hit women are big pusssies.

3 years huh? Since you are biased I will clue you in. Girls like assholes. "The bad boy" if you will. Part of that is they can be abusive. If she was not cool with it then she would have left, not hung around for 3 years. Let me guess... She said things like I hoped he would change or he's not like that all the time. She knew who and what he was and I am sure it allowed her some sympathy for those 3 years. Don't worry, she will find another one. Bank on it.

 

[Bobbytwonames 5,000+ posts]

3 years huh? Since you are biased I will clue you in. Girls like assholes. "The bad boy" if you will. Part of that is they can be abusive. If she was not cool with it then she would have left, not hung around for 3 years. Let me guess... She said things like I hoped he would change or he's not like that all the time. She knew who and what he was and I am sure it allowed her some sympathy for those 3 years. Don't worry, she will find another one. Bank on it.

Nope, as soon as I found out and confronted the guy, that relationship was over. I think it made her open her eyes as to what was going on and it wasn't her fault. She's now in a loving relationship with a "MAN" who treats her as an equal. Thanks for your concern though. Nobody in her family knew that the abuse was going on until I finally pressed her on the issue and she told me. I hope that you never have a sister or daughter who is abused by a spouse or boyfriend.

 

[ThxOne Premium Member]

Nope, as soon as I found out and confronted the guy, that relationship was over. I think it made her open her eyes as to what was going on and it wasn't her fault. She's now in a loving relationship with a "MAN" who treats her as an equal. Thanks for your concern though. Nobody in her family knew that the abuse was going on until I finally pressed her on the issue and she told me. I hope that you never have a sister or daughter who is abused by a spouse or boyfriend.

I have a sister who dates nothing but abusive black guys and it is her choice. Another sister who abuses pills and uses men... again, her choice. I have a daughter who is bisexual, what I call (greedy) who is now in a monogamous relationship with a Navy guy and they have decided to live together. What grown folks decided to do is their choice.

I kinda miss having a girlfriend. I need someone I can punish sexually (in a good way) then turn around and abuse her mentally so that like a good woman she is too broke to leave because she will know she is worthless. I'd make her wash my feet.

 

[Bobbytwonames 5,000+ posts]

3 years huh? Since you are biased I will clue you in. Girls like assholes. "The bad boy" if you will. Part of that is they can be abusive. If she was not cool with it then she would have left, not hung around for 3 years.

That's like me saying that your wife, sister, daughter, or Mom deserved to be ***** because of how she was dressed. What a dumb *** reply. Some girls like bad boys, most don't. She didn't live with the guy. She fell in love with his daughter and felt like a Mom to her. So thanks for your opinions, but they don't apply to her.

 

[ThxOne Premium Member]

That's like me saying that your wife, sister, daughter, or Mom deserved to be ***** because of how she was dressed. What a dumb *** reply. Some girls like bad boys, most don't. She didn't live with the guy. She fell in love with his daughter and felt like a Mom to her. So thanks for your opinions, but they don't apply to her.

So....... how short is this skirt? Are we talking fur and early morning dew? If so, my mom had it coming. You can't just parade around guys showing cleavage, parts of the areola, side labia, camel toe or the top of the thong and expect to not get pounded. They wear stuff like that they are basically saying "come and get it"!!

 

[Bobbytwonames 5,000+ posts]

See I say things like this cause for some reason in today's society he can't have just been an *******. He'd have to be a right wing republican Trump follower. The problem is, sometimes people are just ASSHOLES.

Who fukking said that he was Republican? He is a woman beater. Half a man in my opinion. He's just as bad as a parent beating on a defenseless child. They deserve to be killed.

 

[Bobbytwonames 5,000+ posts]

So....... how short is this skirt? Are we talking fur and early morning dew? If so, my mom had it coming. You can't just parade around guys showing cleavage, parts of the areola, side labia, camel toe or the top of the thong and expect to not get pounded. They wear stuff like that they are basically saying "come and get it"!!

Nice try. Trigger somebody else. You are a knucklehead . It made me laugh though. Good job!

 

[ThxOne Premium Member]

Who fukking said that he was Republican? He is a woman beater. Half a man in my opinion. He's just as bad as a parent beating on a defenseless child. They deserve to be killed.

Now, Now, Now... as a former child who was beaten all the time I can tell you that us little assholes have it coming. My dad kicked me in the face with golf cleats, punched me unconscious, choked me with a belt, hit me with a solid belt buckle, busted my lip so bad I needed stitches. I can tell you this... LOL I had that shit coming.

 

[Bobbytwonames 5,000+ posts]

Now, Now, Now... as a former child who was beaten all the time I can tell you that us little assholes have it coming. My dad kicked me in the face with golf cleats, punched me unconscious, choked me with a belt, hit me with a solid belt buckle, busted my lip so bad I needed stitches. I can tell you this... LOL I had that shit coming.

Maybe you did. But that doesn't mean that every child, daughter, girlfriend, sister, wife, or Mom did or does. Hitting a child just means that you don't know how to be a good parent. Hitting a women just means that you can't control your anger and leave the situation.

 

[ThxOne Premium Member]

Maybe you did. But that doesn't mean that every child, daughter, girlfriend, sister, wife, or Mom did or does. Hitting a child just means that you don't know how to be a good parent. Hitting a women just means that you can't control your anger and leave the situation.

Sometimes it's ok to hit a woman. Just depends on the situation. Myself, I date athletic women, fit women, some women that can fight. It's what I like. Some of them are aggressive. But they usually don't have anything to prove so they rarely get out of line. But there are women who just can't keep it together. I had one throw an entire unopened can of food at me and hit me in the chest with it. That shit hurt and got my attention. It also got her lifted a foot off the ground and held up against the wall and she was told that she would NOT do that again. I made her leave. She came back later and ask if she could come in, apologized and we never had an issue again with her anger. Should I have hit her... Hell yes, a full can of food can do some damage. But I don't do that. I just won't put out.

 

[Bobbytwonames 5,000+ posts]

Sometimes it's ok to hit a woman. Just depends on the situation. Myself, I date athletic women, fit women, some women that can fight. It's what I like. Some of them are aggressive. But they usually don't have anything to prove so they rarely get out of line. But there are women who just can't keep it together. I had one throw an entire unopened can of food at me and hit me in the chest with it. That shit hurt and got my attention. It also got her lifted a foot off the ground and held up against the wall and she was told that she would NOT do that again. I made her leave. She came back later and ask if she could come in, apologized and we never had an issue again with her anger. Should I have hit her... Hell yes, a full can of food can do some damage. But I don't do that. I just won't put out.

Nope, not my style. If she is like that then she can get to steppin'. That's game over shitt. Don't want that type of relationship. She can move on. Just like you said, they never change. Choking a bitchh into submission isn't the answer. She can go be violent with somebody else, not me. I'm not going to risk my freedom on some crazy bitchh, but you do you.

 

[ThxOne Premium Member]

Nope, not my style. If she is like that then she can get to steppin'. That's game over shitt. Don't want that type of relationship. She can move on. Just like you said, they never change. Choking a bitchh into submission isn't the answer. She can go be violent with somebody else, not me. I'm not going to risk my freedom on some crazy bitchh, but you do you.

Jeez dude. I didn't lift her by her neck. She was like 5'5" 115lbs. I had her under her arms. I think I was 185lbs at the time.

I don't hit women.

 

[Bobbytwonames 5,000+ posts]

Jeez dude. I didn't lift her by her neck. She was like 5'5" 115lbs. I had her under her arms. I think I was 185lbs at the time.

I don't hit women.

Just don't make it personal and act like my daughter "deserved" it. A man almost always has a choice (99% of the time) to walk away from the situation. I thought that was a cheap shot without knowing the situation. Again, I hope that a daughter, sister, aunt, Mom, or niece is never in a situation like my daughter was. I was about to go to jail for life.

 

[ThxOne Premium Member]

I don't make things personal. You take it personal. That's part of your problem. You overreact and take everything as a personal attack.

Do you think I will feel sorry for a woman who chooses to stay with an abuser for three years. Not a chance I would feel sorry for that person. Anything they choose to put up with after the first incident is on them. Make your bed...

I also have the luxury of knowing many women and how they act. They LOVE to play the victim. They love to lie. I know for a 100% fact that not all abused women were abused women. I know for a 100% fact that not all women are victims.

Did you know that more than 60% of women who are or were in abusive relationships were abusive themselves? Did you know that? Bet ya didn't did ya.

Hey, it's your kid so you have to side with her but that doesn't mean you have to blindly take what she claims as her side of things as 100% true. There is ALWAYS two sides to every story. She never nagged him... never yelled at him, insulted him, threw things at him, hit him? You think this guy just said ahh what the hell, I think I will be abusive to this chick for no reason whatsoever. Guys do a pretty good job of dealing with that kind of stuff but eventually SNAP! A person can only take so much crap before they explode.

Listening to how you argue on this website and how you repeat the same things over and over and over with your one sided views, you don't think that kind of stuff rubs off on kids? You don't think she was at his house just drilling the same thing over and over and over and over and over? I see how much you do it and I know that woman take it to the next level. Just sayin. I could be 100% wrong. She could be an angel.

 

[Bobbytwonames 5,000+ posts]

My daughter didn't ask for that type of treatment. If you want to come after me then go ahead. But please don't go after my daughter. You obviously don't understand "true" domestic violence. Just let it go!