Tough decision to make.. Might be worth it

[hzsogood 5,000+ posts]

and holy shit ... hellll no im not gay.. fyi, just making that clean....//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/eyebrow.gif.fe2c18d8720fe8c7eaed347b21ea05a5.gif

 

[hzsogood 5,000+ posts]

Which was my point.. We do not know the situation, nor do we know the people at hand. So we can not have a discussion about this with you, maybe your mother would be the person to talk about this with //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crazy.gif.c13912c32de98515d3142759a824dae7.gif

LOL hell no on that one to.. She basically forbids me to talk to him , due to there past... but i see this is goin nowhere .. Sorry for the thread...//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/offtopic.gif.470a8b0541c72322a0037f48a8237473.gif lock it //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif

 

[AcidicDreams 10+ year member]

SO a physical relationship with him is all i remember and now i want to squash all the BS and drama..

Wow, that sounds just plain wrong. And stop being an EMO...

but seriously... talk to him... it's worth trying. But if he hasn't grown up or is a shitty person your going to be SOL... time to get a new father figure or learn to deal without one... Shitty people are shitty people, even if they are your dad....

 

[hzsogood 5,000+ posts]

Wow, that sounds just plain wrong. And stop being an EMO...
but seriously... talk to him... it's worth trying. But if he hasn't grown up or is a shitty person your going to be SOL... time to get a new father figure or learn to deal without one... Shitty people are shitty people, even if they are your dad....

LMao... im as far from an emo as can be, which is y i said delete the thread b4 anyone else sees it //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif.. Im 27.. i dont need a father figure anymore //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif

 

[ssj2xxgotenxx 10+ year member]

Go to his house and tell him to grab his coat... take him out for guys stuff. You know, father - son stuff (sporting events such as football, baseball, basketball, and hockey). Nothing GAY about that, right PhatTony?

I wish I could hang out with my biological dad, but my stepmom is a total biznatch and she won't even let me talk to him. I have to secertly meet up with him @ his work just to see him. It's hard when parents get divorced, but it's a reality many of us have to deal with since America's devorce rate is so high...

 

[hzsogood 5,000+ posts]

Go to his house and tell him to grab his coat... take him out for guys stuff. You know, father - son stuff (sporting events such as football, baseball, basketball, and hockey). Nothing GAY about that, right PhatTony?
I wish I could hang out with my biological dad, but my stepmom is a total biznatch and she won't even let me talk to him. I have to secertly meet up with him @ his work just to see him. It's hard when parents get divorced, but it's a reality many of us have to deal with since America's devorce rate is so high...

Well it's cool you se where im coming from man.. I appreciate the sincerity.. Im gonna chat with him ... The toughest part is getting the balls to knock on his door... I dont know why.. maybe its just the element of surprise

 

[ssj2xxgotenxx 10+ year member]

Well it's cool you se where im coming from man.. I appreciate the sincerity.. Im gonna chat with him ... The toughest part is getting the balls to knock on his door... I dont know why.. maybe its just the element of surprise

Go for it, and let us know how it goes =)

 

[Phrozt 10+ year member]

He's your pops, and no matter what happens, he always will be there for you. Talk to the guy.

ROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOFFFFFLLLLLLL

if you think that's a blanket statement to apply to every dad.. You're wrong.

My dad beat my mom and she got away from him when I was 2. Since then, I've only seen him a few times, and I've probably regretted every time. I'll illustrate a few for you:

I'm in college, he's about to get out of prison for almost killing a woman from beating her so bad. We're sitting there and making light talk... not doing too bad.. then he asks if I have a girlfriend. I say no. He says "yer not a fuckin queer or nothin are you?"

Oh wait.. first.. before that. The gaurd leading me to him was like "who are you going to see?" I said his name... the guard goes "oooh yeah!! great guy!" I was like "do you even know what he's in here for?" He replied no, so I proceeded to tell him how my dad stabbed this woman so many times that had the police not been there to clean her up, she would have died. That and the fact that her eyes were completely black and she had a SOLID bruised area from around her knee, all the way up to the top of her thigh.

He turned green and got quiet.

Then he gets out of prison.. and it's close to christmas.. and his bday is christmas eve. So I decide to go over and see if he learned anything from prison. Basically, he tells me how it was all a joke, and he could talk his way through anything, and then told me some effed up view on life and how he's all bitter at the world and stuff. Then... he had 2 reeeeeeeeeaaaaly interesting quotes. Keep in mind, this is coming STRAIGHT out of prison:

1) "I call n***ers n***ers to make them FEEL like n***ers"

2) "100 lb woman, or 300 lb n***er, I'll still beat the shit out of them."

And then there's the last time I showed up... after he got out of prison, AGAIN.. he was engaged to marry some chick (despite the reputation that preceedds him, he still gets lots of ladies) and he sent me $6 bucks on my 21st so I could "buy a 6 pack." Oh yeah.. child support for when I was growing up?? HEEEEELLLLLL no. I decided to see if he changed yet again. Showing clear evidence that he hadn't, he worked up to his quote of THAT night. He asked me how I was doing. I was doing pretty well and told him. He then said "Yeah? Well you don't come around here to see how I'm doing, so I don't give a shit how you're doing."

Turned around... went downstairs.

In closing.. this bullcrap about your dad always being there... is not always true.

 

[Z71999 10+ year member]

Offer to get a beer with him...whats the worst thing he could say? no? If so you can live not regreting any of your issues with your dad