Tough decision to make.. Might be worth it

[hzsogood 5,000+ posts]

I have'nt talked to my father in 4 years.. And before that it was a few years as well.. So basically i've talked to him 2 times in about 6-7 years.. I know it's cheesy and sad to ask on a forum.. But i actually want to talk to him now.. B4 anything happens and i regret not talking to him.. It's a long story about what happened but i wont bore anyone with details.. So is this the right thing to do or not... The only reason i'm asking is because some things feel right at first but backfire later

Click to read more...

 

[danteBirosel 5,000+ posts]

no offense but i think you'll need to find the Opera or Jerry Springer forum for that.

 

[zachzchw 5,000+ posts]

Talk to him, see how it goes.

If it doesnt work out, then just consider him dead to you.

 

[JL12W7INAGS300 10+ year member]

entertain us, tell the story

 

[ssj2xxgotenxx 10+ year member]

He's your pops, and no matter what happens, he always will be there for you. Talk to the guy.

 

[wgaede 10+ year member]

He's your pops, and no matter what happens, he always will be there for you. Talk to the guy.

x2 man, i wish i could talk to my day. He's be dead for 2 years now.

Hard to get over something like that, especially when it's sudden. Talk to him while you can man.. that's my advice.

 

[hzsogood 5,000+ posts]

x2 man, i wish i could talk to my day. He's be dead for 2 years now.
Hard to get over something like that, especially when it's sudden. Talk to him while you can man.. that's my advice.

Thats how i feel as well.. sorry for whoever said this should be a springer topic, sorry man i'm not anywhere near trailer trash ....//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/rolleyes.gif.c1fef805e9d1464d377451cd5bc18bfb.gif .. And for those who wanna be amused the story goes like this in a shortened nutshell) .. My Dad and i never really saw eye to eye.. Whenever he saw me when i was younger ( after he made my mother go to court for child support rights) He did nothing with me and would always piss and moan about my mom,, This was messed up to a 10-12 yr old, Anyways i got older more mature , wheni was 16 we got into a physical confrontation, which he blamed on me, 19 another confrontation.. Same deal... My fault cuz i was " a punk " to him.. like i said long story.... I dont want everyone to think of me as some one else quoted to .. as a jerry springer candidate.. I make 40k / yr.. My old mans a post master making 80 k / yr , my step dad makes over 100k per yr as a CPA.. Dont mean to brag about money but that jerry springer comment pissedd me off.. SO a physical relationship with him is all i remember and now i want to squash all the BS and drama..

 

[hzsogood 5,000+ posts]

bottom line .. I dont even know how to approach the guy.. Once i do i got it handled .. But the confrontation is the hardest part:crap:

 

[PhatTonyDeMarco 5,000+ posts]

Show up at his front doot, unannounced, and give him a hug.

 

[hzsogood 5,000+ posts]

Show up at his front doot, unannounced, and give him a hug.

lol, as cheesy as that ****in sounds .... Thats exactly what i was thinking

 

[PhatTonyDeMarco 5,000+ posts]

lol, as cheesy as that ****in sounds .... Thats exactly what i was thinking

You're gay.

[/THREAD]

 

[hzsogood 5,000+ posts]

Yea well, i gotta do what i gotta do .. I gues if im considered ghey for doin this , nobody understands my situation.. Thanks anyways guys

 

[PhatTonyDeMarco 5,000+ posts]

Yea well, i gotta do what i gotta do .. I gues if im considered ghey for doin this , nobody understands my situation.. Thanks anyways guys

I wasnt saying youre actually gay, I have no basis for that of course...

This was just not a good idea for a thread. The obvious answer is that you should of course have a good relationship with your father, he is, after all, your father.

 

[hzsogood 5,000+ posts]

I wasnt saying youre actually gay, I have no basis for that of course...
This was just not a good idea for a thread. The obvious answer is that you should of course have a good relationship with your father, he is, after all, your father.

When ur buzzed u mak e stupid threads... The obvious answer is not always so obvious for the person.... If you old man beat your mother and tried to pound on you would you be saying... Just do it... he's your dad...????" prolly not man.. hostility is a b*tch

 

[PhatTonyDeMarco 5,000+ posts]

When ur buzzed u mak e stupid threads... The obvious answer is not always so obvious for the person.... If you old man beat your mother and tried to pound on you would you be saying... Just do it... he's your dad...????" prolly not man.. hostility is a b*tch

Which was my point.. We do not know the situation, nor do we know the people at hand. So we can not have a discussion about this with you, maybe your mother would be the person to talk about this with //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crazy.gif.c13912c32de98515d3142759a824dae7.gif