Step-Dad BS Again!

[budahbuddy803 10+ year member]

MY mother remarried about 5 years ago. We moved into his house when i was a freshman in highschool (me, her, him) bc its more valuable than the house we were living in. HE is a Delta pilot so his schedule is either he is GONE for days or he is HOME for days....nothing in between. When he is home, he does some odd jobs/yard work around the house. Most of the time he watches sports, swims, eats, and sleeps. Ever since I moved in I clean my room and clean up after myself religiously. I clean any and all dirty dishes no matter whose they are...... really i am just a super neat freak and dont have a problem cleaning after other (for the most part)

He has two children, a 21yo daughter with a 4 yo daughter and a 24yo son. Neither of which have jobs and they are ONLY seen at their fathers house when he is flying. They leave messes and I clean them up because when he is gone I am responsible for the house according to him and my mother.

I have a sister and a brother but they are NEVER here so they dont really matter. Anyways every summer my step dad cuts the lawn with a very large tractor with a mower attachment (pretty big yard). I have to go through after him with a push lawn mower to trim and get the places he missed. I finally moved away for school last year, and that was somthing I was so happy and i didnt have to do.

I move back in for the summer to WORK at 19yo. I clean and organize my mother and stepfathers things WAY more voluntarily. I work tuesday-sunday 8-10hrs a day, but still find the time to mow whenever he does to clean his mess without him asking.

 

Finally this past weekend I had normal work with the exception of my true father's re-marriage pre party and actual wedding. The pre-party was saturday @ 6 I didnt think i could make it but i got off at 7:30 and went straight there all sweaty but as clean as i could be. I got home and it was too dark to mow. Sunday I go to work, leave and go to the wedding, and then go back to work..... by the time i got off it was too dark.

 

Step dad raises his voice asking why this house and our old house we are still trying to sell have not been mowed by me yet. I simply state, Tray, you know how busy I am, I promise ill get to it when I can. He looked at me and said... This is a priority, you must get it done before I get back from my trip on Monday. I said I will do what I can but I have the wedding events this weekend which makes it super tough. He said yes, but we need to sell that house and its apparent the grass at our house needs to be cut. I say yes sir and go to work.

 

I wound up getting both finished today before he got home, but this is what I dont understand.............................

I do not ask for my stepsister with the baby to come do anything over here because she isnt over here much at all.

As for the stepbrother, he does not work, does not look for work, and only comes here when his father is gone to swim, watch the big screen tv, and eat the food that we did not buy with the intentions of him eating. His dad knows that he comes, but its clean when he gets back bc of me so its not a problem i guess for him. Even with this being the case, why cant he be asked to mow a **** yard at least once out of the summer.....he lives in his moms house and doesnt do shit most of the time. He has ALL the free time in the world and is not asked to do a single thing in the house. His room is and stays a mess and smells terrible...... I clean it so my mom doesnt have to when we have company spend the night.

My mother knows what goes on and trys to help me out some because I dont want to yell or argue with my stepfather. We finally have decided to not clean up any of his stuff so his father see's how worthless this guy is and HOPEFULLY asks him to come contribute. Its just a rant, but my stepdad is REALLY REALLY getting on my nerves I am just ready to put down a down payment on a house and get out of here permanently, but I can't work and make enough money to support that expense, nor do as well as I need to in school just because of time. I will continue to clean after my mom and her husband when it is needed voluntarily, but I am pissed at how he keeps giving me more and more shit to do with my hectic schedule. Thanks for reading.

Cliffs: Stepdad sucks. (Bold is mainly whats going on, everything else is just background)

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[budahbuddy803 10+ year member]

Not only that, but he will not let me pay for my vehicle without his "inspection" and "approval"..... I think its a good idea because he probably knows more about buying cars and such. BUT I have sent him over 40 links to different vehicles starting in May when i got back from school. He has not done anything but said keep sending em and well get it taken care of. I am starting summer school as well and working for my last month of "summer" before I start my sophmore fall semester. I do so much for him and get nothing in return. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif poor me right? haha

 

[goingdef 10+ year member]

dude sorry to say but.............I think YOU may have to kill him!

 

[budahbuddy803 10+ year member]

dude sorry to say but.............I think YOU may have to kill him!

its being considered.

 

[goingdef 10+ year member]

its being considered.

sh*t Iill help in know where we can bury him

 

[dumple 5,000+ posts]

beat his sons *** be the "man" of the house

 

[Brian_smith06 10+ year member]

sorry to hear that man. You seem like a pretty cool cat to me too. He is a douche nozzle //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif

 

[Louisiana_CRX 5,000+ posts]

start tapping your step sister to get back at him.....

 

[Imtjnotu 5,000+ posts]

stand up for urself and tell him ur not the only niqqa living there.....grow a pair and tell him to cut his own fukkin grass and clean up after himself

 

[budahbuddy803 10+ year member]

beat his sons *** be the "man" of the house

it would be pretty random and unexpected to him i'm sure, bc i dont have a problem with him really. I dont HAVE to clean his mess i could leave it and blame him. I am just mad that his dad makes me do all the ***** work while his son lives "the life".... im sure his life isnt nearly as eventful and successful as i hope to be, but thats enough problems for him as it is.

sorry to hear that man. You seem like a pretty cool cat to me too. He is a douche nozzle //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif

Thanks for the kind words. I think i made a thread about this more recent to when i moved in with him and he started to show his true colors. The stepdad talks highly of me to most everyone and cant have any problems with me bc I havent really given him any right to. I just dont understand why he thinks its cool for me to do everything bc i live with him and am a free "maid" inside really. If its not done once a week I vacuum the entire wood floor downstairs in the kitchen, den, dining room, living room, and office. I scrub the kitchen without anyone asking and only mom thanks me.

 

[Imtjnotu 5,000+ posts]

start tapping your step sister to get back at him.....

or u can go this route:cuddle:

 

[budahbuddy803 10+ year member]

start tapping your step sister to get back at him.....

If she looked any kind of decent it would have already been done......

stand up for urself and tell him ur not the only niqqa living there.....grow a pair and tell him to cut his own fukkin grass and clean up after himself

I cant do that without yelling at him or raising my voice at least and I dont like for people to have to deal with that. I feel that i should quit *****ing in general, but when i look at the whole picture its just messed up to me.

 

[goingdef 10+ year member]

start tapping your step sister to get back at him.....

THAT is the best idea yet, good thinking crx

 

[Imtjnotu 5,000+ posts]

the guy needs to be yelled at seriously ur best bet is to stand up to his shitt...

 

[Louisiana_CRX 5,000+ posts]

pics of said step sister to see if shes worth tapping ...it sounds like at least one person thought she was at least....