okay... Im totally losing my mind. Ive installed, reinstalled, checked, and double checked all of the installation and programming instructions on this Axxess Aswc-1 steering wheel controls. Its pretty straight forward, just 3 wires and a 3.5 mm jack. When i start programming the message I get is that one of the wires is not connected. IT IS FREAKING CONNECTED! Any idea how I can proceed? Could it be a bad device?