1) The amplifier would send the same amount of power to the sub since the power is split when running in parallel.2) You would know for sure when one sub dies ... It doesn't just go quiet, especially not in a shared enclosure ...
3) Because of 2), you would turn down the volume at the very least, if not turn your system off altogether and inspect why there's this sudden loud banging noise coming from the back ...
I usually design shared enclosures because they're much, much easier to build, thus less likely for n00bs to make mistakes. In addition, they're more efficient in their use of space. This isn't so much of an issue with sealed enclosures, but when you get into ported enclosures, you're not just talking 1 wall anymore, you're talking about several. With sealed enclosures, I almost always use separate chambers.